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EP049 The Wounded Vs. The Gracious Feminine In VENUS UNLEASHED.

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 09:28:24 GMT

In this episode I'm talking about the wounded vs. the gracious innate feminine that every woman holds at her core. The question is where are you coming from in life and love? Are you acting from worth or wounding? Learn what it takes to graduate the wounded feminine, and to love and liberate your inner Queen. Bring an end to self-betrayal and become the embodiment of radiant love, soulful pleasure and heartfelt intimacy today.

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Time stamp:

Podcast Time stamp

Love’s Agent 2.33
Your desires are your heart’s deepest prayers 3.09
What I see in you 4.25
Healing the relationship with yourself, men and the world 4.48
Love and liberate your innate gracious feminine 5.35
The capacity of the innate feminine 6.02
Your day is a living prayer 6.40
The meaning of grace 7.00
7.30 the difference between the wounded and the gracious feminine, and why we please (self-betrayal as a consequence)
10.00 why as a woman you might need an emotional connection before having sex
10.30 how to shift from the wounded into the gracious feminine
What the innate feminine is not about 11.40
You are an act of courage 12.00
12.40 - only a woman unafraid of her feelings will be able to guide a man into his heart - your feelings are your most valuable currency
13.13 VENUS UNLEASHED. - VENUS IS THE EMBODIMENT OF LOVE AND SEX
Transformation takes time, there are no quick fixes 14.00
14.35 Month One - The foundations of the gracious feminine
15.00 - Month Two - Worth vs. Wounding and your self-worth
15.30 - the cycle of toxic shamebased living, and listening to the inner princess, transition into queen mode
Month three 16.30 - Awakeing your deeply spiritual core and bringing tback the ability of Energetic Knowing
Month Four 17.15 - Moving into LOVE as the great plan, you as a woman have a deep capacity to love - leave love notes everywhere you go
18.18 becoming an energetic vibrational match to calling in the king
19.50 - Month 5 Feminine Sexuality and Pleasure (let go of fear and shame, learn how to communicate, conscious sexuality, bring it to a place of sacredness)
Month Six: Reclaiming, celebrating your unique feminine expression, know who you are as a woman and create your soul queendom
Sliding Scale 22.10 - making Venus Unleashed affordable
22.30 the woman you’ll fall in love with will blow your mind
23.58 your sacred journey and initiation into sovereign liberated womanhood, graduating the wounded feminine!
24.24 working with me is the end to self-betrayal, a call for love and expression of your happiest self
26.40 - Our upcoming luxurious couple’s retreat in Ancona to talk love, sex and intimacy all week long with your beloved!!

EP048 Deep Healing Initiation Meditation

Sat, 30 Apr 2022 12:58:51 GMT

If you have been on a journey of emotional healing & personal transformation we know that it has not always been easy. Sometimes doing our inner healing work can feel like an uphill battle. Sometimes it feels lonely, hopeless and never-ending. We've got your back! With this mediation we aim to bring ease and rebalancing to your nervous system. It also acts like an initiation to opening yourself up to the deeper inner healing work.

EP047 Why You Should Ditch The Bad Boy And Go For The Safe One!

Sat, 30 Apr 2022 10:31:05 GMT

Most women have met and been attracted to them - the bad boys. Most women have also had their heart broken over them. We know that they're not a long-term solution, and yet find ourselves chasing after them. There are reasons why we want them so badly, and there are even better reasons why you should ditch them and go for a safe one. Don't worry, passion does not have to be lost, quite the opposite. Learn all about it in this episode.

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EP046 How To Survive Going No Contact

Fri, 09 Jul 2021 08:29:24 GMT

Whether you have recently gone through a tough break-up or you wonder how to stop yourself from giving in again? Maybe, you have been ghosted and your person has gone incognito, or you are the one that had the courage to leave. Whether it was your choice or not, you are faced with no contact and you might be feeling sad, frustrated, anxious or confused, or worst of all you feel like a complete failure and wonder how to survive now that love is gone. You are feeling that way because you are experiencing emotional withdrawal. I am here to help! In this episode I will show you how to not just survive a break-up, but actually thrive. It's time to rise like a phoenix from the ashes of your old self and rise to the other side.

EP045 The vicious cycle of a co-addicted relationship

Wed, 09 Jun 2021 07:00:00 GMT

Co-addicted relationships consist of a rather painful dance of pursuit and avoidance. That dance might feel exhilarating at first, but in the end robs both of a fair chance to manifest their desperate longing for real emotional intimacy. Learn more about the dynamics between anxiously and avoidantly attached lovers.

EP043 You Are Enough! Why We Feel Chronically Unworthy And How To Heal That For Good

Wed, 26 May 2021 08:35:23 GMT

Aleah has been invited as an expert to the “You are enough” summit with Pia Prana Muggerud where she speaks about why we chronically feel unworthy and how to heal that for good. In this episode Aleah will exclusively pre-answer one of the core questions of the interview. Furthermore she invites Pia Prana on the show to talk about the upcoming summit, why you should participate and what you will get out of it. Sign up today https://piaprana.mykajabi.com/a/38938/TUwSDmR4 - it’s free AND comes with many amazing gifts and take aways. Aleah will gift you her new ebook called “How to heal for good with 0% spiritual bypassing." Get your download now at: www.theroyalpath.com/howtohealforgood

EP044 Don't Give Up, Epic Love Is Possible!

Wed, 26 May 2021 08:35:00 GMT

Healing Love Addiction can be a bumpy road and oftentimes you might think that love will never happen for you - just as I did. Oh boy, was I wrong. Epic love is possible, especially when you have done the needed healing work to step out of Love Addiction or dysfunctional relationships.

EP042 The Importance Of Self-Holding In Times Of Covid-19

Fri, 03 Apr 2020 10:24:00 GMT

We are faced with an exceptionally challenging time right now during Covid-19. Not only do we find ourselves in an economic crisis, but we are also confronted with feelings of isolation, loneliness, anxiety and fear of survival and the unknown. Never has it been more important to build inner resilience to better cope with the situation. We need more love and connection than ever to regulate the threat response in our brain and soothe our nervous system. Only that now we are forced to find new ways and focus on giving that to ourselves. We profit from a dedicated daily spiritual practice to continuously raise our frequency from fear to love. This guided meditation will help you practice the powerful method of “self-holding” that allows you to bring yourself back into balance within yourself whenever you need it.

EP041 3 Keys To Survive Loneliness At Christmas

Fri, 20 Dec 2019 12:30:00 GMT

Christmas can be a lonely time for many of us. It is a time of reflection in many ways and it can bring up some difficult emotional triggers and feelings keeping us from feeling the warmth and magic Christmas actually has to offer. To survive such feelings and the loneliness it can bring with it, I offer you 3 powerful keys to make this your best Christmas ever. This year, I have got you covered!

EP040 Modern Chivalry And Sexual Complexity In Relationships Today With Stefanos Sifandos

Sat, 17 Aug 2019 08:04:00 GMT

Having a Love Coach today is basically inevitable. Healing and Growth is no longer optional in modern relationships. Leveraging outside help catapults the success of your union to new levels. In this interview, Aleah interviews Stefanos Sifandos, to discuss burning topics when it comes to intimate relationships. Some of the highlights contain an in-depth conversation about our disillusions by relationships, amazing questions to ask yourself when evaluating potential new partners or how to open up difficult conversations. Apart from that we look at what modern chivalry means and how to deal with sexual complexity and differences for men and women in intimate relationships and SO much more!

EP039 Conscious Parenting And Safe Attachment With Nan Coosemans

Wed, 12 Jun 2019 14:01:00 GMT

In this episode Aleah interviews Nan Coosemans, Teen Whisperer and Family Coach, about the importance of conscious parenting and safe attachment. By understanding what children truly need and giving it to them, we actively help them growing up feeling resilient, worthy, lovable and self-respecting. It’s crucial for them when it comes to finding healthy love later on in life. Nan will also talk about the do’s and dont’s of conscious parenting and what it takes to truly bond with your children. Children have so much to teach us, if we truly listen and self-reflect on how we show up when parenting them, whether that is your own child or not. You can find more information about Nan here: www.nancoosemans.com

EP038 The Feeling Is The Healing – But How To?

Mon, 15 Apr 2019 16:26:00 GMT

One question all of my listeners, clients and friends have in common is: “Aleah, how do I actually dive into my feelings? It seems so difficult to do so!” or “I haven’t cried for years, what does it take?” – I feel you! It took me a lot of practice to get there myself but you need not to worry. For exactly these reasons, I created an episode where I talk solely about how to access feelings. I’ll share with you why it is so difficult in the first place, offer you ways to work through it with support and on top will provide you with a clear guideline should you chose to do the work on your own. Not to forget, practice makes the master, so be patient and keep going. You’ve got this!

EP037 How saying NO will get you closer to REAL love!

Fri, 15 Mar 2019 14:46:00 GMT

Saying No to love is one of the hardest things we have to do, but when necessary, powerful beyond belief. Your NO is a big fat YES to yourself. In this episode Aleah discusses a very important phase in Love Addiction Recovery – the NO THANK YOU phase. Why it is so important and what the consequences are if you skip that phase is something you NEED TO KNOW about, if you are serious about finding REAL, HEALTHY & LASTING love.

EP036 Guided Meditation For Loneliness, Anxiety and Overwhelm

Tue, 22 Jan 2019 22:19:00 GMT

If you experience moments of loneliness and anxiety or if you feel generally overwhelmed with difficult feelings, listen to this meditation. I created it for one of my clients and she reported back that it really helped her to dive deeper into her feelings and eventually find balance again. So I decided to make it available for you all. Do it once you are at home, with privacy, with headphones on, laying down so you can fully focus on it and relax into it. Let it affect you and repeat it as many times as you would like. Let me know how it went for you.

EP035 The Fantasy of Getting Back Together – Will It Ever Go Away?

Mon, 07 Jan 2019 13:32:00 GMT

One of my dear listeners from New Zealand sent me a message a couple of days ago and asked me some very important and specific questions: Does the yearning and the fantasy of getting back together ever go away? Does the pain subside eventually? And is it wise to consider getting in touch with him after a couple of years when I have made progress in my recovery? Aleah will also share her number one tool for how to deal with the feeling of yearning and longing. Before you do get in touch with someone from your past, make sure to try this first!

EP034 Unrequited Love: When We Still Want The One Who Cannot And Will Not Love Us Back

Tue, 11 Dec 2018 18:05:00 GMT

Do you find yourself longing for a person who cannot and will not love you back? Is unrequited love something you are familiar with? Maybe you have well-set intentions to never engage with anyone again who is not willing and able to invest the time and effort you deserve. And yet somehow, you find yourself exactly in that kind of situation. No, you are not a failure. This is a natural part of recovery. Today I will be sharing my own experience about feeling the longing for someone I know is not my match but oh boy is my head not yet aligned with my heart. I share with you how I leveraged this experience to actually take another major step getting further ahead in my own recovery.

EP033 Moving Into REALationships Through Learning The Art Of Emotional Recycling

Tue, 27 Nov 2018 16:13:00 GMT

Aleah elaborates on the Art Of Emotional Recycling, a vital skill that works for all types of relationships but is inevitable in intimate ones. She is currently launching her book called “Are You Sure It’s Love? – Moving Into REALationships Through Learning The Art Of Emotional Recycling” of which Emotional Recycling will be an essential part. She also talks about why we (re)act out, how repression amplifies feelings, the problems of acting-out, how to react with an appropriate intensity (no drama) and what the role of an emotional recycler is. This skill will change your emotional well being, don’t miss it.

EP032 Waking Up To The Authentic You With Sherry Gaba

Fri, 23 Nov 2018 18:41:00 GMT

Sherry Gaba, Psychotherapist, Life and Recovery Coach, released her new book “The Marriage & Relationship Junkie.” This episode focuses on breaking-up which is often hard to do as a Love or Relationship Addict. We also discuss what typically happens when you decide to let go of someone you once loved. How can you meet your lost self again and wake up to the authentic YOU? When is it safe to return to dating? What are pivotal moments while going through Love Addiction Recovery? How can we ensure that the passion we feel for someone new stays in the healthy territory? Sherry gives us all the answers! Find her book here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B079P66PFJ/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

EP031 KINGS & QUEENS Sexual Alchemy: The Divine Masculine & Feminine TODAY with Kevin Oroszlán

Sat, 10 Nov 2018 12:00:00 GMT

Listen to my epic interview with Kevin Oroszlán, (R)Evolutionary Coach, where we’re going to talk about Kings & Queens, meaning the healthy and even divine masculine and feminine that are in much need for all of us at a point where the old and outdated masculine model is being exposed worldwide. We’ll look at the qualities of both the King and the Queen that truly make relationships work where mutual support for growth and healing takes place instead of drama, neediness and resentment. We’re also throwing in some interesting aspects about Sexual Alchemy and Sacred Sexuality – how does sex look like in 2018? Sacred Sexuality is the King’s and Queen’s discipline that can transform anything that is not working. We’ll also talk about the importance of men’s work for every guy to be able to integrate his shadow side that naturally exists within every male. There is a huge rise of the Goddess with all the women’s gatherings and red tents around the world. And the shift is also happening for men where they learn to appreciate the importance of men being with other men in a non-sensual but brotherly way to become the true King, Warrior, Lover & Magician, how Kevin calls it.

EP030 The Pitfall of Love Addiction Recovery – Becoming Aware Of Setbacks

Thu, 25 Oct 2018 12:23:00 GMT

Recovering from Love Addiction is not an easy thing. There might be setbacks along the way, and that’s perfectly natural. The one thing that helps us moving another step forward, however, is to realize when we are falling back into the illusion. When everything urges us to just “get one more shot.” When intense feelings surface, our reality gets distorted because our feelings make something seem real when in fact it’s mostly “just” our feelings. We then act irrational and in non-conducive ways. Listen to a real-life example of a client who has almost fallen back into the trap, but through awareness and the right guidance, he was able to keep pushing towards healing.

EP029 The 8 Bowls Of Nourishment To Protect Against Addictive Patterns with Jamie Catto

Thu, 18 Oct 2018 13:41:00 GMT

Listen to an intimate conversation with Jamie Catto, founding and former Member of Faithless and Director of the double Grammy nominated Global Music and Film Collective, “1 Giant Leap”. He shares his own path of self-healing and the incredible tools that helped him turn dependency into vigorous self-care. He also elaborates on how there is so much intelligence in our pain. We are in fact perfectly capable of embracing uncomfortable feelings, the moment we decide to step beyond our comfort addiction and pro-actively turn towards what needs healing inside of ourselves.

EP028 Rejection Is Your Protection!

Mon, 08 Oct 2018 15:22:00 GMT

Rejection hurts so bad as it triggers our feelings of unworthiness like nothing else. Despite being rejected, some people keep pursuing the person in an attempt to prove to themselves that they are indeed lovable. We engage in unrequited love and do not realize that there is actually nothing to prove when you honor and love yourself. Understand why you keep running after people who don’t want you and learn what you can do about it. Rejection is your protection, there is nothing sexy in pursuing someone who won’t love you back. Walk away with dignity and an open heart, creating yet another glorious moment, where you chose yourself first!

EP027 EXPECTATIONS – Don’t Let Them Sabotage Your Relationship!

Thu, 27 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Ever felt that your expectations cause troubles in your relationship? We all have them, but are we aware of why we naturally have them? Or about what actually lies beneath these expectations? Aleah shares tips and tricks that will help you deal with the challenges resulting from not getting what you expect. Manage your expectations and create win-win situations. It won’t take long, and you’ll go from not getting what you want to feeling perfectly nourished, happy and in the right place!

EP026 How Not To Enter Bad Relationships In The First Place!

Fri, 21 Sep 2018 07:00:00 GMT

We always think that we have time. But actually, we don’t. Wasting it by engaging in unfulfilling relationships, when a great one might actually be around the corner is simply said just sad! The best way of not losing precious time and magic moments is to avoid entering these types of relationships in the first place. But how do we do that? Apply this one strategy, and you have a pretty good chance of creating the best love life you possibly can.

EP025 Dating App Addiction and Post Date Depression – Online Dating In 2018 with Damona Hoffman

Mon, 17 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Damona Hoffman, dating coach, TV host from A+E Networks as well as the host of the Dates & Mates Podcast shares her secrets when it comes to online dating in 2018. We’ll be talking about dating app addiction, post-date depression, as well as the slow-love principle. We’ll also discuss the pitfalls and pains when it comes to finding a great mate. Don’t chase the no’s, focus on the yes’s – rejection is your protection! How managing our expectations, building real connections, and laying the proper groundwork are key to any lasting relationship. Curious to know when it’s best to start having sex and move along in the dating process? Tune in and find out now!

EP024 8 Ways To Avoid Falling In Love Too Quickly

Wed, 12 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

We are all tempted to get instant gratification. Passionate nights, butterflies, and hours of chatting with a new lover. These moments are great but if we jump into something too quickly, we might no longer be able to evaluate if this person is actually a good match in the long run. Jumping ahead in the process of establishing a real and adequate connection wont allow us to keep a clear mind. What can we do to avoid falling for someone too quickly? What should we do instead? I’ll give you 8 ways to avoid falling in love too quickly that will allow you to trade a couple of passionate nights in to a lifetime of happiness!

EP023 The Seven Dimensions Of Exceptional Relating with Gal Szekely

Mon, 10 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

In this inspiring interview with Gal Szekely, you’ll get the building blocks for healthy lasting love. We talk about the 7 dimensions of exceptional relating and how to deal with expectations you might have towards your partner. Learn how to communicate your needs responsibly, without being demanding. We show you ways to stop compromising and instead find a win-win situation for both partners. Gal also elaborates on the importance of juggling autonomy vs. connection in a relationship. Want to know what kills and builds passion?

EP022 Step Out Of Obsession And Into Empowerment

Fri, 07 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

You have been waiting, hoping for a call, a message, a sign from the person you are pursuing at the moment. Your mind is going in circles, obsessing over why he’s not calling back. You start constructing stories. Maybe he is with someone else or perhaps he’s lost interest. Sounds familiar? Step out of obsession. Learn how to break the state and turn obsession into empowerment in an instant!

EP021 Say No To Compromised Sex And Say Yes To Yourself

Thu, 06 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Compromising when it comes to sex, it is a sure way of putting yourself in a disempowered state of being. The way you do sex is a clear measurement of how much you value and respect yourself and how solid your standards are. At what point are you compromising on your standards and why? Risk to be rejected; a no to someone else is a yes to yourself! There is nothing worse than lousy compromised sex. Don’t ever compromise on that one!

EP020 The Number One Thing That Will Take Your Relationship To The Next Level!

Wed, 05 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

The success of your relationship is in direct correlation with both partner’s ability to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is your key to your partner’s open heart. But what does vulnerability mean? How can we ensure not to let resentment build to a degree where the relationship will eventually face its expiration date? Learn what vulnerability really means. Discover a great tool to prevent this from happening and instead take your relationship to the next level where you enjoy more love, more intimacy, and a better connection to your loved one.

EP019 Three Strategies To A More Intimate Relationship And Better Sex!

Tue, 04 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

We can all agree that love can be the most wonderful, exciting, and heart-opening thing. However, love can also be the most painful, dark, and hopeless place we have all experienced and it can break our heart into a thousand pieces. Learn three great strategies to turn any challenging situation into a more intimate relationship and better sex. You can apply these strategies the moment you feel that everything goes south.

EP018 Dropping The Mask: Showing Up As We Truly Are

Mon, 03 Sep 2018 10:00:00 GMT

There is undeniable power in exposure and vulnerability, if we pro-actively choose it. When we stand strong in our truth, we show the highest form of integrity towards our self and everyone around us. The moment we hide aspects that we label as inadequate, we are denying a part of our self. Let’s show up as the person we truly are. Instead of saying, “What’s wrong with you?” we ask, “What happened to you?” Tell me your story, I’ll go first.

EP017 You Can Only Heal What You Can Feel

Fri, 31 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Many of us are scared of feelings and we do whatever it takes to repress them. Even our brain is wired like that. Feelings are not scary, suffering is. Unfortunately, we mistake the two with each other. Your feeling is your healing. Feel the feelings instead of repressing them or acting them out in hurtful and unconscious ways. Discover the last of the three keys that will allow you to overcome love addiction.

EP016 Spiritual Idiocracy: Triggers Are Not Your Enemy, They Are Gold

Thu, 30 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Have you ever heard that notion about how a spiritual person is all relaxed and that their zen-level is a measurement of how evolved they are, that the less they get triggered, the more they have it together? We are humans with emotions and there is nothing wrong with not having it all in control. Every living being gets triggered from time to time. The question is how do we deal with them? We can either act them out unconsciously or leverage them. The latter is what will turn everything around for you. Learn how not wasting perfectly good triggers is your way out of emotional suffering.

EP015 Denial Is Not A River In Egypt, Awareness Will Give You Choice!

Wed, 29 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

There are three keys to how we can overcome love addiction. Aleah shares key number one and the basis for it all: awareness. The first step to break denial, the very nature of love addiction, is to not only become super aware on what love addiction is, but also on our unconscious behavior that reinforces the addictive parts of love as well. Learn more about how awareness can overcome love addiction.

EP014 If You Want To Be A Winner In Love, Be The Captain Of Your Life! Part 3

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

How would your life change if you were able to be the captain of your life, if you could create a life you truly love because you feel empowered enough to do so? Do you want to be more proud of yourself for what you do and achieve? Do you want to become the juiciest and sexiest version of yourself? Learn how you can get there and attract the love you want for yourself by being the captain of your life.

EP013 If You Want To Be A Winner In Love, Be An Emotional Recycler! Part 2

Mon, 27 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

If we want to create more peace and love in our relationships, our life, and the world in general, then we have to start by healing ourselves first. Once we do that, we can help others heal as well. We all carry a lot of pain, and too often that pain gets expressed in hurtful ways. It does not have to be that way. Learn about the power and value of being an emotional recycler and what potential it brings for helping others work through their pain as well.

EP012 If You Want To Be A Winner In Love, Overcome Love Addiction! Part 1

Fri, 24 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Why do we have to overcome love addiction? First and foremost, if love addiction runs our life, it means that we are not. What’s really crucial is that we often act out unconsciously from the wounded and unloved place inside of our self which only creates more hurt, separation, disconnection, and suffering. It does not have to be that way. We have to stop outsourcing our pain. The moment we decide to take 100% responsibility we can turn from disconnection to love in an instant.

EP011 Suicide, Competition And Depression: Facing A World Full Of Broken Hearts

Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

What are the consequences of love addiction and the early absence of love in life? These consequences do not just concern us as individuals but the world and our society in general. In all honesty, it is heart-breaking and an absolute must to understand. Did you know that the suicide rate of adolescent girls has doubled since 2005? We are now living in a world full of broken hearts. If we are not angry, we are not paying attention. Look at how these consequences translate directly into the problems we’re facing today, not just from an individual’s perspective but also from the world’s perspective, as we dive right into the ten major consequences.

EP010 How to turn your pain into power and succeed in life! A heartfelt interview with Deborah Torres Patel.

Wed, 22 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

“Our struggles are our gifts!” says Deborah Torres Patel in this heartfelt interview. Want to know how to turn your pain into power? Deborah shares, how she used her skills in communication and acting to protect herself, prevent abuse, devoid pain and ultimately get out of troubles. She will talk about the radical shift that was necessary to get a fair chance to a happy life. Today with her own «million dollar voice» method, she offers a journey to both power and freedom. She will also provide insight into how to break out of feeling stuck and broken.

EP009 Childhood trauma and the early absence of love – WHY we are addicted, part 2.

Tue, 21 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Early absence of love and other traumatic childhood experiences contribute massively to becoming a love addict later on in life. They also do not allow our brain to shape and wire the way we would actually need it, to build resilience so we can deal with life’s upheavals later on. Dr. Bruce Perry’s work is a must-know for all of us who deal with love addiction and all parents out there. One of the most crucial episodes that you definitely do not want to miss on this show.

EP008 Love, Sex, Abuse and the Brain – WHY we are addicted, part 1

Mon, 20 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

This episode elaborates on the first of the two major reasons WHY we are addicted to love and how our brain actually plays a big part in it. We also talk about why someone would stick to an abusive partner and why it seems to be out of their hands to do otherwise. Learn about Dr. Helen Fisher’s ground-breaking study and what she wrote on the neural chemistry of romantic love. You will also finally understand why love indeed does make us blind.

EP007 Can a parent love too much? Part 2 of the different types of Love Addicts.

Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

We will lead through the other 7 different love addiction types that all share the same unhealthy patterns such as dependency, loss of reason, an inability to self-control and obsessive longing that must be satisfied. No matter the type – all lack the ability to maintain long-term, healthy, compassionate and intimate relationships. They also all share the same terrible consequences – a life with continuous painful pattern of self-sabotage, shame, absence of real love, intimacy and crazy-making relationships.

EP006 Interview with Dr. Margaret Paul “Love Addiction is a real thing!”

Thu, 16 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Listen to the interview with Dr. Margaret Paul. She holds a PhD in psychology, is a relationship expert, a public speaker, best-selling author, popular Huffington Post writer and co-creator of the powerful “inner bonding” self-healing process, also recommended by Alanis Morissette. She wrote 9 books of which one sold over 1 million copies. She will also talk about how as a love addict, we tend to abandon our self & how to spot signs of denial.

EP005 «Why dont you want me?» The perfect love-match made in hell; where the typical love addict meets Mr. emotionally unavailable. Part 1 of the different types of Love Addicts.

Wed, 15 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Do you have a history of attracting emotionally unavailable partners? There are 9 different types of love addicts according to Jim Hall, Love Addiction Specialist. In this episode we explore the strong but unhealthy bond between the typical love addict and the avoidant love addict. You will also learn about the different stages they go through & the repetitive cycle they find themselves in. We will also share the 7 signs to spot an emotionally unavailable / avoidant love addict, so you can make better choices from the start.

EP004 Are you guilty of instant relationships? The sublime art of ignoring red flags & other signs of Love Addiction.

Tue, 14 Aug 2018 10:00:00 GMT

Do you mistake drama, intensity, sex and romance for love? Are you jumping into relationships way too quickly? Are you unable to see the red flags early on in relationships? We will help you find out by sharing the 10 typical characteristic traits that indicate an addiction to love and reveal other unhealthy parts in the way we relate. You will also learn 3 tips to instantly increase your awareness as awareness will give you choice!

EP003 Is your love addiction killing your sex life?

Mon, 13 Aug 2018 19:24:00 GMT

Are you experiencing the deep emotional & sexual intimacy that your heart truly longs for? Or do you perhaps live in a relationship where passion & sex is barely existent? Do you feel that your needs are being met or do you feel that you never quite get what your heart desires? In this episode you will learn what is causing sexual rejection and what to do about it. We will share the one crucial tip on how to turn things around, so you can finally enjoy the sex & intimacy you deserve.

EP002 Is it hot sex or is it love addiction?

Mon, 13 Aug 2018 19:20:00 GMT

In this episode we will talk about Sex, Love & Addiction. We will also show you how to clearly differentiate mature, healthy, intimate and compassionate love from immature, neurotic & “addicted” love. We will start to create more awareness around the ways you relate with your partner. Awareness will empower you and enable you to turn things around and make a positive change in your existing or new relationships. It is never too late to create the love life you truly long for!

EP001 Welcome to Addicted to Love with Aleah Ava

Mon, 13 Aug 2018 19:18:00 GMT

Welcome to the first episode of the Addicted to Love podcast with Aleah Ava. We are excited to bring you amazing content that will change your love life forever. Most people would never combine the words Love and Addiction and often, what we believe love to be, is in fact an addiction to love. It is the least recognized form of addiction. On the other hand, probably one of the biggest of human kind and leads – as any other addiction – to great suffering in relationships. In this podcast you will learn what is really causing the pain & what to do about it. If you want to be a winner in love, then this podcast is for you.