Deeper Dating Podcast

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Life-Changing Stories From A Survivor...My Mom [EP 232]

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

My mom was a holocaust survivor, a renowned artist, and a ray of light for so many. Here are a few of her wisdom-gems that can change the way you think about love, life’s challenges, and spirituality.

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04:17 – How can art be used to help us see each other?

07:22 – How does taking risks make your life wider and bigger?

08:59 – Why do we need to appreciate the work?

12:04 – Why is it important to choose gratitude every day?

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How To Rewire Your Attractions To Find Soulmate Love [EP 231]

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 11:00:00 GMT

If you are serious about finding lasting love, it’s a MUST that you learn to rewire your attraction patterns so that you notice and become more attracted to people who are actually good for you. We have the capacity to do this–and in this episode, you’ll learn how.

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03:30 – What shapes your attraction?

06:08 – What are your attractions of inspiration and attractions of deprivation?

10:22 – How do you determine your North Star question?

11:58 – How do you tell the difference between your attractions of inspiration versus your attractions of deprivation?

19:01 – How do you make the commitment and live the shift?

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How To Know If You Are In The Right Relationship [EP 230]

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

How do I know if I am in the right relationship? Should I be looking for another relationship, or should I be working on this one? Ken Page takes a deep dive into how you can answer these life-defining questions. He explains what it takes to get out of deal-breakers, how to communicate your deepest desires in a non-violent way, and why “good fights” can lead to stronger relationships. Stop trying to figure out if you are with the right partner and start doing the work to discover it yourself.

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13:06 – How To Identify Deal Breakers And Get Out ASAP

19:06 – What Feels Good And Right In Your Relationship?

22:28 – What Feels Wrong And Missing In Your Relationship

25:58 – Am I Being My Truest Self With My Partner?

31:02 – Why Cohabitation Often Leads To Divorce

33:23 – What You Should And Should Not Do

37:44 – Helpful Pieces And Information On Finding The Right Relationship

40:22 – Why Love Is Not Lost Even If It Goes Subterranean

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A Powerful Way To Find Love - And Make A Difference [EP 229]

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

What’s one of the best ways to find love in this challenging time in history? In this important episode, you’ll learn how to find love and make a real difference at the same time.

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01:09 How can finding love heal your life in the process?

02:53 What is the quickest and wisest way to find love?

07:39 Why is it important to remember what matters most to us?

11:39 Why do we need to look for people who share your values?

14:56 How do you bravely communicate with people and build connections?

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How To Have The Hard Conversations That Build Intimacy And Trust [EP 228]

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In this rich and moving episode, I talk with therapist and upcoming author Colette Jane Fehr, whose book The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love offers a compassionate roadmap for the moments that test — and ultimately strengthen — our relationships. Whether you’re in a relationship or seeking one, this conversation will give you tools to show up more bravely — and more lovingly — in the places that matter most.

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03:19 Why is it important to have the hard conversations?

06:27 Why do we need to understand our fears and what’s happening inside of us?

12:10 How do you have assertive communications without being “aggressive”?

20:09 What is self-connected communication and why is it important?

34:21 What are the benefits of building your confidence and finding and using your voice?

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The Inner State That Makes Real Love Possible [EP 227]

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 08:00:00 GMT

There is a psychological key that shapes your future in love, and it’s called your self-state.

In this episode of the Deeper Dating Podcast, I’ll help you discover the self-states you’re living from — and how to shift into one that leads you to deep love, self-honoring, and grounded hope.

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:00 What is a self-state and how does it shape our relationships?

4:08 What is the “gift zone” and why is it key to deeper intimacy?

7:40 What happens when we’re dating from a diminished self-state?

12:32 How does our self-state affect our sex life and boundaries?

23:11 How can we use visualization to shift out of self-doubt?

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The Full Deeper Dating® Path in One Episode! [EP 226]

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 08:00:00 GMT

In this episode, you'll learn each of the four steps of Deeper Dating®.

Together, these steps have the power to transform your entire journey to deeper love.

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3:50 How do you discover your core gifts?

14:50 Why do we keep choosing the wrong people in love?

17:22 How can you date bravely without losing yourself?

20:35 What should you do when someone good actually likes you?

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10 Minutes That Will Change Your Future in Love (Really!) [EP 225]

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 08:00:00 GMT

If you know that devoting 10 minutes a day could change your future in love, would you do that?

In this episode, I'll teach you practices that truly have that power. Listen, try...and see what I mean.

Listen For:

:10 What if 10 minutes a day could change your love life?

3:00 What two things helped Ken go from chronically single to happily partnered?

7:00 How can the “Inner Mentor” practice transform your search for love?

12:30 What is Ken’s life-changing spiritual ask—and how did it shift everything?

18:20 What one question can realign your heart in tough relationship moments?

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How Deeper Dating Can Transform Your Current Relationship [EP 224]

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

Deeper Dating has changed the lives of so many single people, but these ideas have the power to transform relationships as well.

In this episode, you'll learn to use the skills of Deeper Dating and the power of your Core Gifts to create connection, intimacy, safety and joy in your relationship.

Listen For:

:34 What are the four stages of Deeper Dating and how do they apply to relationships?

7:19 How can you discover your Core Gifts through what delights and wounds you?

12:23 What happens when your generosity goes unnoticed in a relationship?

15:37 How do you make an emotional "ask" in a way your partner can truly hear?

17:51 What changes when you share the most tender parts of yourself?

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REPLAY - A Proven, Science-Backed Method to Lead You to Healthy Love [EP 223]

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 08:00:00 GMT

A research-based way to transform your search for love and deepen your own self-love? Yes, please!

In this episode. I’ll teach you a process — and guide you through it — that can bring hope, resiliency, and wisdom to your search for love. I think you’ll love it!

Listen For:

:34 What is EFT and how can it transform your dating life?

3:35 Why is discouragement such a powerful block to love?

8:10 What should you know before trying tapping for emotional healing?

11:07 How do you do the EFT setup statement for dating challenges?

16:53 What does a full tapping sequence for dating struggles actually sound like?

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Gold From the Dating Trenches: Stories That Can Change the Way You Love [EP 222]

Fri, 31 Oct 2025 07:00:00 GMT

In this episode, I share some of the dating stories that have touched and taught me the most.

These are real love lessons, right from the trenches, to inspire you in your own journey.

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1:21 How Self-Love Shapes Real Relationships7:55 Recognizing and Changing Attraction Patterns16:22 Building Authentic Connections That Last19:58 How to Rewire Your Relationship Patterns for Love

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This North Star Question Is the Key To Finding Lasting Love [EP 221]

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 07:00:00 GMT

There is a North Star question that is the single greatest key to find lasting love. In this episode, I'm going to teach you that North Star question.

I show you how to use it, and I'll explain how it will speed your path not just to love, but the kind of love that can truly last and feed your heart and soul.

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1:59 What is the North Star Question that changes everything about dating?

4:25 Why does asking “Do I feel safe and seen?” lead to better love?

6:41 What if you're not inspired by the person in expected ways?

13:24 How does being your true self become your dating superpower?

18:38 How can asking this question heal anxious or avoidant attachment styles?

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How to Stop Self-Abandoning in Your Relationships [EP 220]

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Self-abandonment is one of the most powerful ways we lose love and sacrifice self-love in our relationships.

In this episode, you'll learn a truly inspiring process to stop self-abandoning.

Join me as I interview one of the most inspired teachers I know: Dr. Margaret Paul, co-creator of Inner Bonding. This process has changed the lives of countless people, myself included.

Listen For:

4:57 – The Four Pillars of Self-Abandonment

11:04 – Need vs. Neediness: The Hidden Trap in Relationships

16:43 – The Six Steps of Inner Bonding Explained

25:50 – The Art of Making a Self-Loving Ask

30:49 – What to Do When Your Partner Isn’t Open to Learning

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7 Signs You’re Finally Ready for a Healthy Relationship [EP 219]

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 07:00:00 GMT

There are 7 indicators that prove you are speeding your path to the kind of love that can last and grow.

In this episode of the Deeper Dating Podcast, you'll learn what those seven signs are, and what you can do to make them happen for you.

Listen For:

3:03 Trusting Your Body’s Wisdom in Dating

8:25 Letting Go of Shame to Find Real Connection

10:31 When Toxic Stops Being Attractive

12:51 Discovering the Power of Inspired Attraction

16:06 How Friends Can Help You Break Love Patterns

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The Most Powerful Hack to Uplevel Your Search For Love and Deeper Intimacy [EP 218]

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Are you ready to learn what might be the most powerful hack for upleveling your entire search for love and deeper intimacy?

In this episode, you'll learn what that is and how to do it!

Listen For:

1:49 Why Upleveling Your Love Life Changes Everything

5:22 The 4 Fierce Questions That Will Change Your Dating Life

9:35 The Friend Who Called Him Out (And Changed Everything)

11:31 His 96-Year-Old Mother’s Life-Changing Metaphor

15:34 The Inner Mentor Practice That Bypasses Your Inner Critic

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What Happens When You Go Back To A Narcissist As a Partner and as a President [EP 217]

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 07:00:00 GMT

What happens when you leave a narcissist, and then go back? The level of danger escalates profoundly.

We may have seen this in the lives of people we love, and all of us are seeing this in our country as we have re-elected Donald Trump.

In this episode you'll learn what to look out for, how to protect yourself and how to create change on a personal level, in our communities, and our nation.

Listen For:

4:23 Narcissistic Abuse Cycle Explained by a Psychotherapist

6:46 Why Returning to a Narcissist is More Dangerous Than Ever

9:26 How Narcissism Fuels Racism, Prejudice, and Dehumanization

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REPLAY - Do You Know Your Sexual Core Gifts? [EP 216]

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 07:00:00 GMT

This is an episode first published in October 2024. It’s one of our most popular.

Your sexual Core Gifts are the language of your true sexuality.

When you can name, claim, and embrace them, your sexual experiences will become so much more amazing, connected, and filled with love and excitement. In this episode, you'll learn how to discover your own sexual Core Gifts.

Listen For:

2:34 Sex as a Mirror of Your Life

7:00 The Hidden Power of Shame

12:56 What Makes You Feel Safe

18:58 Finding Themes in What Moves You

23:37 Naming Your Sexual Core Gifts

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How To Ask For What You Really Want [EP 215]

Fri, 25 Jul 2025 07:00:00 GMT

If you want to supercharge the intimacy in any relationship, think about the asks that you don't ask.

In this episode, I will teach you how to name those asks, how to deshame them, and how to present them in a way that leads to greater closeness with your friends, with your family, in your love relationship, and with yourself.

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What it's Like For Singles in America: Interview with Dr. Amanda Gesselman [EP 214]

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 07:00:00 GMT

The biggest study of the American single experience just came out.

In this episode, I interview one of its key authors; Dr. Amanda Gesselman, Director of Sex & Relationship Science at Match and a Research Scientist at the Kinsey Institute.

Get ready to hear some really fascinating things about what's happening for single people in America. Sex, love, dating, AI; it's all in this report!

Listen For:

4:21 Turning the Tables: Singlehood as Empowerment

9:34 The Emotional Disconnect Between Men and Women

17:56 Intentional Dating The 30-Minute Rule

23:16 Attraction vs. Attraction Patterns

30:35 The Silent Epidemic Miscommunication in Dating Intentions

39:52 Gen Z a

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The Two Greatest Questions That Lead You To Real Love [EP 213]

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Are you chasing love that leaves you feeling unworthy or uplifted?

Ken Page reveals the two pivotal questions that can revolutionize your search for love and shield you from unnecessary heartache.

Drawing from four decades of psychotherapy and personal growth, Ken explores the profound difference between "attractions of deprivation"—those intense, addictive relationships that mirror old wounds—and "attractions of inspiration"—connections rooted in mutual respect, safety, and emotional integrity.

He also unpacks how asking one soulful question—“Do I feel safe and seen?”—can fast-track your journey to secure love and deepen your own self-worth.

Listen For:

03:23 What Is an Attraction of Deprivation

07:11 Personal Story The Relationship That Nearly Trapped Ken

09:37 Why Deprivation Feels Like Home

13:10 The Three Cs of Choosing a Partner

15:34 The Second Key Question Do I Feel Safe and Seen

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Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 3 [EP 212]

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Can a broken road really lead you home to love?

Ken Page shares the raw and profound story of how he finally found real, lasting love—by embracing his deepest fears, honoring his longing, and listening to the gentle whispers of spirit.

From navigating intimacy during the AIDS crisis to forming a heartfelt support group of “chronically single shrinks,” Ken weaves a touching narrative of heartbreak, healing, and joy.

His journey leads to adopting a child from Cambodia, launching his Deeper Dating movement, and marrying the love of his life just before his father’s passing.

This is a story about trust, transformation, and the sacred, messy path to authentic love.

Listen For:

0:43 Embracing Neurosis: The Gifts Hidden in Shame

8:18 The “Wave” of Repulsion and How It Sabotages Love

11:30 The Secret to Overcoming the “Ick”

14:41 Realizing He Wanted to Become a Father

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Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 2 [EP 211]

Fri, 30 May 2025 07:00:00 GMT

What happens when the search for love pulls you away from your soul—and how do you find your way back?

Ken Page shares the deeply personal next chapter of his emotional, spiritual, sexual, and romantic journey in the second part of this series.

From navigating New York’s vibrant and chaotic gay underground of the 1980s to an unexpected spiritual reawakening in the Wind River Mountains of Wyoming, Ken opens up about his struggles with love, addiction, loss, and the journey toward self-acceptance.

Through heartbreaking stories and soul-shifting insights, he reveals how he began to integrate his sexuality with his spirituality and laid the foundation for his life’s work.

Listen For:

6:32 Discovering the gay cultural renaissance in NYC

10:12 Fitting in with the beautiful and unattainable

13:28 Launching a therapeutic practice and gay men’s groups

16:43 A dream that revealed the truth about love

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Sex, Spirit, Love, and Longing: My Personal Journey | Part 1 [EP 210]

Fri, 16 May 2025 07:00:00 GMT

What happens when spiritual devotion and gay identity collide in the search for love?

In this raw, never-before-shared episode of The Deeper Dating Podcast, Ken takes you on an intensely personal journey through his early spiritual awakening, sexual discovery, and search for authentic connection.

From mystical meditations and cult-like spiritual circles to heartbreak, celibacy, sexual compulsion, and finally integration,

Ken explores the winding path that led him from loneliness and longing to a deeper understanding of self, love, and the divine.

Vulnerable, courageous, and powerfully human.

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5:28 Losing his friend group and finding solitude

6:42 A radiant stranger in the vegetable aisle

9:45 Meeting Paramahansa Yogananda through a book and a photo

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REPLAY - How Dating Can Become a Spiritual Path [EP 209]

Fri, 02 May 2025 07:00:00 GMT

This is an episode first published in March 2024. It’s one of our most popular.

How do you turn your dating life into a true spiritual path that heals your heart, connects you to the deepest parts of your being, allows you to have experiences that are truly transcendent, and allows you to find real healthy love dramatically more quickly? This episode will teach you how.

Listen For:

02:16 – What “Spiritual” Really Means in the Context of Love

05:48 – The Power of “Coming Out” with Your Authentic Self

10:06 – Why We Unconsciously Sabotage Love

13:35 – The Spiritual Roots of Defensive Dating Behaviors

17:55 – The Shame Around Tenderness and Big Love

19:18 – Soft Confidence vs. Rigid Perfectionism

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