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Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Julie Danielson: Get Over Divorce and Thrive Again

Tue, 21 Apr 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Julie Danielson, founder of The Get Over Divorce Collective, a transformational coaching program helping women heal after divorce, rebuild confidence, and create a future that’s bigger, bolder, and entirely their own. Julie empowers women to rebuild self-trust, raise their standards, and never date down or settle again.

We get real about what it actually means to get over divorce—how to know when you’re truly healed, the subtle signs you’re still emotionally stuck, and the inner work required to move on for good. Divorce is messy, layered, and deeply personal—and in this honest, unfiltered conversation, we simplify the process without sugarcoating it. If you’re navigating divorce, post-divorce healing, or redefining yourself after a major life reset, this episode is a must-listen.

PS. You also need to be OK with f-bombs because they are certainly present.

Key Topics Covered:

What the Get Over Divorce Collective coaching program is all about—and why it works.
Why do so many women get stuck in the healing phase and feel unable to move forward truly?
Coaching vs. therapy: how this approach focuses on forward momentum once you understand the “why.”
The real signs you’ve genuinely gotten over your divorce (not just coping).
The biggest indicator that you’re actually ready to date again.
The different stages of dating: newly divorced vs. dating with serious, long-term intentions.
Practical tools and mindset shifts for enjoying your own company—and how that completely changes the dating dynamic.
How to stop settling for relationships you’re not aligned with, and what settling actually looks like when it happens.
Whether lists of wants and non-negotiables in a partner are helpful—and how to create one that truly supports your future.

“You are responsible for the outcome of your next chapter in your life, and it can be so amazing. And I'm living proof - our clients are living proof - that it's possible.” - Julie Danielson

About Our Guest: Julie Danielson

Julie Danielson is a certified divorce and relationship coach and the founder of The Get Over Divorce Collective, where she helps women turn heartbreak into confidence, clarity, and self-trust. Blending real-life experience with no-BS coaching, Julie empowers women to raise their standards, stop settling, and date—and live—from a place of strength. She’s also the host of the top-ranked Get Over Divorce podcast, known for honest conversations and transformational insights.

This Episode Is For You If:

Are divorced (or divorcing) and ready to stop surviving and start thriving.
Feel “healed enough” but know deep down you’re still playing small or stuck.
Want to date again without dragging old baggage, fear, or low standards with you.
Are you done overanalyzing your past and ready to build a future that actually excites you?
Refuse to settle for another relationship that doesn’t fully meet you—and want to know how to spot the right one.

Connect with Julie Danielson:

Website: Getoverdivorce.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/juliedanielson.CHAT/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliedanielson_coaching/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Hot, Hormonal & Done: The Perimenopause-Divorce Connection

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 10:00:00 GMT

7 in 10 women blame perimenopause for the breakdown of their marriage. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Coincidence? We don't think so.

In this episode, I sit down with Dawn Wiggins — therapist and divorce coach — and we go all the way in on what's actually happening in a woman's body, why libido tanks (hint: it's not your partner), and why perimenopause may be the silent force behind more divorces than anyone wants to admit.

Oh — and perimenopause is reversible. We said what we said.

If you've ever felt like a stranger in your own body, your own marriage, or your own life — this one's for you.

Key Topics Covered:

The perimenopause-divorce connection: what the research actually says and why it matters
Why perimenopause is hitting women younger — and what's driving it
The truth about libido and relationships: it's not about desire, it's about depletion
Why your partner's inability to support this transition may be the real breaking point
Perimenopause is reversible — what that means and why it changes everything
Practical tools to navigate perimenopause, especially when divorce is happening at the same time
How to reclaim your identity and start seeing yourself as the goddess you actually are

“Unless you do conscious work to reprogram your subconscious mind, you are going to repeat those relationship patterns without meaning to.” - Dawn Wiggins

About Our Guest: Dawn Wiggins

Dawn Wiggins, Ed.S., is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and divorce recovery coach with over two decades of experience. Based in Florida, she integrates therapy, EMDR, EFT tapping, and body-based healing to help women move through divorce — not just survive it.

What sets Dawn apart is her lived experience. She's been through it herself, which is exactly why her work hits differently. She also hosts the Dear Divorce Diary podcast, and her work has been featured in Bustle.

Who This Episode Is For:

You've been feeling disconnected from your body, your marriage, or yourself, and can't quite explain why
You're going through a divorce and wondering if perimenopause played a role — or is making everything harder
Your libido has taken a hit, and you're tired of pretending that's not affecting everything around you
You feel like your partner never understood what you were going through during this transition
You're ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming who you are — desire, power, and all

Connect with Dawn Wiggins:

Website: https://mycoachdawn.com/ , https://www.dawnwigginstherapy.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/

Check out Dear Divorce Diary Podcast: https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Divorce Recovery: What No One Tells You

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 10:00:00 GMT

Today on Uncoupled & Unfiltered, I sit down with Oona Metz, therapist, divorce recovery expert, and author of Unhitched. With decades of experience, Oona has helped women move beyond simply surviving divorce and begin rebuilding their lives with real support, practical tools, and zero fluff.

We dive into what divorce recovery actually looks like, why it’s unlike any other life transition, and the communities and resources that exist to help women feel supported, understood, and far less alone.

Key Topics Covered:

Why recovery from divorce is fundamentally different from grieving a death or healing from heartbreak
Why structured support groups are often more effective than venting to friends, leaning on family, or searching for answers on social media
The origins of Unhitched and why it’s an essential resource for anyone navigating divorce
Common behaviors that keep people stuck—even when they believe they’re “doing the work.”
Why the belief “I should be over this by now” stalls healing, and what actually helps instead
The most common challenges and frustrations women experience during divorce recovery
The biggest lie we’re told about divorce—and what the truth really is

“The opposite of love is not hate, because both love and hate keep you attached. I think the opposite of love is indifference. And so letting go is one of the most important things you have to do in a divorce, and it's hard to do.” - Oona Metz

About Our Guest: Oona Metz

Oona Metz, LICSW, CGP, is a nationally recognized therapist, writer, and speaker with over 30 years of clinical experience supporting women through major life transitions, especially divorce. She is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, Certified Group Psychotherapist, and a Fellow of the American Group Psychotherapy Association, and leads multiple divorce support groups while training clinicians across the country through The Beacon Group Fellowship. Oona is the author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women, an empowering and practical roadmap to healing and growth through every stage of the divorce process. Her work blends deep psychological insight with compassionate, real-world guidance to help women move from survival to flourishing.

Who This Episode Is For:

Women navigating divorce or separation who want practical guidance and emotional support
Anyone struggling to move on after a major relationship loss and feeling stuck
People are curious about why traditional advice and social media coping strategies often fall short
Those looking for structured tools, communities, and expert insights to rebuild their lives
Friends, family, or supporters of someone going through a divorce who want to understand the process better
Anyone interested in real, no-fluff approaches to healing and personal growth

Connect with Oona Metz:

Website: www.oonametz.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oonametz

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/womennavigatingdivorce/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/oona-metz-licsw-cgp-6a14a41b/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OonaMetz

Book: https://www.oonametz.com/book-unhitched

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Train, Eat, Slay: The Baddie Edition

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Chanel Schweer—founder of Joy Movement, certified trainer, former Division I athlete, pro competitor, and mom—who truly understands the power of movement for both mental and physical health.

We talk about getting you fired up to build the body of your dreams—and yes, maybe even make your ex realize he should’ve treated you better.

This episode is all about breaking the intimidation factor around workouts, making good nutrition feel doable, and learning how to move in ways that actually feel good. It’s about moving with what moves you—and not being afraid of carbs… yes, I said it.

Key Topics Covered:

How even simple movement can help reduce stress and regulate emotions
Why divorce can make working out feel overwhelming—or even impossible—and how to ease back in
Is it that you don’t like working out, or just haven’t found the type of movement that truly moves you?
Strength training and what it actually does for your body (and no, you won’t get bulky)
Is the scale really your best friend when you start taking fitness seriously?
Carbs as workout fuel: the do’s and don’ts
Workout addiction vs. discipline—understanding the difference
Why rest days are essential and how to know when you need one
How workouts you genuinely enjoy can help stabilize your emotions during divorce and rebuild your confidence
How to adapt your workout routine during perimenopause and menopause
Is it really just genetics—or can you build the body you’ve always dreamed of?

"Everyone's going to find what works for them… I always say, find what moves you and do it often.” - Chanel Schweer

About Our Guest: Chanel Schweer

Chanel Schweer is the founder of Joy Movement, a certified personal trainer, strength and conditioning coach, former Division I athlete (Syracuse University), and pro-level fitness competitor with over 15 years in the industry. She helps people feel confident, strong, and empowered through movement that’s effective and fun—whether that’s in the gym or at home. Chanel is passionate about making workouts accessible, focusing on sustainable habits, and supporting people in building the body and energy they want without intimidation or unnecessary complexity.

This Episode Is For You If:

You’re ready to move your body without feeling intimidated—or guilty—for skipping a day (or three)
You want workouts that actually excite you, not make you roll your eyes
You’re curious about how carbs, strength training, and rest days really work for your body
You want to feel strong, confident, and maybe even make your ex do a double-take

Connect with Chanel Schweer:

Website: https://www.joymovement.co/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joymovement.fit/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chanel-schweer-86553513/

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/@joymovement

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

X: https://x.com/MoneyChicShari

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Money Moves After Divorce: How Women Can Take Control with Shari Rash

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Shari Rash, a nationally recognized financial advisor and host of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, named a Top 4 money podcast by The New York Times with over 24 million downloads. We discuss why women need financial advisors who understand their unique relationship with money. Shari explains why financial conversations can be challenging for women, the emotional side of money, and practical strategies to take control of finances.

Key Topics Covered:

Why most financial advisors are men—and how that often causes them to miss the mark when speaking to women about money
Why women are more likely to feel intimidated by money management, especially during and after divorce
Common financial mistakes women make following major life transitions
Alimony decisions: when a lump sum makes sense versus monthly payments
Making big purchases on your own: when to finance—and when not to
Smart money strategies after a divorce settlement, including how much cash to keep on hand, how much to invest, and how to prioritize retirement
The importance of liquidity during high-conflict divorces and planning for potential legal fees if future motions arise
The emotional decision many moms face: going into debt to do right by their kids when a high-conflict co-parent refuses to contribute
One money habit for women that can make a significant difference over time
The biggest money “rule” women are taught that actually hurts them—and what to do instead

“There’s no reason for women to not be good at money or doing money or understanding money. Again, it’s just because you, one, were never taught it, and two, if you were taught it, it was likely from your father who spoke a very different language than you.” - Shari Rash

About Our Guest: Shari Rash

Shari Rash is the founder and lead financial advisor of GWA Wealth, a virtual fiduciary wealth advisory firm dedicated to making money simple and empowering women to build financial confidence and clarity. With nearly two decades of experience in financial planning, she breaks down complex concepts into practical guidance that helps clients navigate major life transitions, manage money with confidence, and create long‑term financial stability. Shari’s mission is to address the gaps many women face in financial education and support them in making empowered money decisions with less shame and more confidence.

This Episode Is For:

Women navigating financial decisions during or after divorce
Anyone looking to take control of their money with confidence and clarity
Single parents handling major financial responsibilities on their own
Individuals who want to understand the emotional side of money and how it affects financial choices
People seeking practical strategies for budgeting, investing, and long-term financial stability
Anyone who has felt intimidated by money or unsure how to work with a financial advisor who truly understands their needs

Connect with Shari Rash:

Website: https://www.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com

www.gwawealth.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZ9XFRGOsgZr_WFd8T0ShLg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shari-rash/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/everyonestalkinmoneypodcast

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/west-coast-family-mediation-center, https://www.linkedin.com/in/singeramanda/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Divorce Mediation 101: Costs, Timeline, and Common Mistakes

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Amanda Singer, a professional family mediator and founder of West Coast Family Mediation, who helps couples navigate divorce in a collaborative and amicable way.

We talk about why you don’t need to be friends to negotiate a fair settlement or finalize a divorce without draining your bank account—or your emotional well-being. Even if you don’t get along, there are ways to mediate successfully when you have the right mediator and the right support.

Key Topics Covered:

What mediation is—and how it differs from litigation
Who mediation is right for (and when it’s not the best fit)
The typical timeline for the mediation process
Why mediation can get tricky and how an experienced mediator helps get things unstuck
The role and importance of a consultative attorney
The most common sticking points in mediation and why they arise
Separation date vs. filing date—and why the distinction matters
What to do (and what not to do) before entering mediation
Divorce coaches and CDFAs as part of the divorce ecosystem
How to choose the right mediator for your situation

“With mediation, you have a mediator who works as a neutral third party… that mediator isn’t going to represent you or your spouse, but is going to work with both people together to resolve the issues related to the divorce.” - Amanda Singer

About Our Guest: Amanda Singer

Amanda Singer is a professional family mediator, attorney, and founder of West Coast Family Mediation. She helps couples navigate divorce and family transitions collaboratively, outside of court, with a focus on fair outcomes, clear communication, and preserving emotional well-being. With a background in law, dispute resolution, and divorce financial analysis, Amanda is known for guiding even high-conflict situations toward practical, workable agreements.

This Episode Is For:

Anyone considering divorce who wants a less adversarial, more cost-effective path forward
Couples who don’t get along but still want to reach a fair, workable settlement
People feel overwhelmed by the legal, emotional, and financial sides of divorce
Anyone curious about mediation and whether it could work for their situation

Connect with Amanda Singer:

Website: https://westcoastfamilymediation.com/

Instagram: westcoast_mediators

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/westcoastfamilymediation/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Indifference Beats Hate In High-Conflict Co-Parenting & Blended Families

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Karen S. Bonnell, a co-parenting coach, mediator, author, and mentor with over 30 years of experience supporting couples, parents, and blended families through times of transition, loss, and change. Together, we dive into the often-overlooked topic of co-parenting and the role stepparents play when entering the co-parenting dynamic.

Co-parenting skills don’t come naturally like walking or eating; they require a significant learning curve shaped by trial, error, and growth. In this conversation, we go deep into how to stay focused on the children, avoid getting pulled into pointless and draining battles, and center your energy on what you can actually control.

Key Topics Covered:

The differences between healthy co-parenting and high-conflict co-parenting dynamics.
Co-parenting therapy versus co-parenting coaching—and when each approach is most effective.
Practical strategies for keeping your focus on your children instead of what’s happening in the other household.
Why the opposite of love is indifference—and how emotional neutrality is often the healthiest place for effective co-parenting.
How to respond when a co-parent is driven more by resentment toward their former partner than by love for their children, and the psychological reasons behind this behavior.
The limitations of the court system in managing complex co-parenting conflicts, and why a well-crafted, detailed co-parenting plan is essential.
How the co-parenting dynamic shifts when stepparents enter the picture.
What a healthy and supportive stepparent role looks like.
Situations in which a stepparent oversteps boundaries and how to navigate those challenges effectively.

“Again, what do I have control over? I have control over what happens in my household, and in my backyard, my relationship with our kids, and that’s where my focus is going to be.” - Dr. Karen S. Bonnell

About Our Guest: Dr. Karen S. Bonnell

Karen S. Bonnell, MS, ARNP, is a respected co-parenting coach, mediator, and author with over 30 years of experience helping parents and blended families navigate separation, divorce, and life transitions. She is the author of several widely used co-parenting and parenting plan resources and is known for her child-centered, practical approach to building healthy two-home families.

Who This Episode Is For:

Parents navigating co-parenting after separation or divorce who want to reduce conflict and stay focused on their children’s well-being.
Individuals dealing with high-conflict co-parenting dynamics and looking for practical, emotionally grounded strategies.
Stepparents and blended-family members seeking clarity on their role and how to support healthy co-parenting relationships.
Anyone feeling stuck in resentment, power struggles, or court-driven solutions, and wanting a more effective, child-centered approach.
Anyone looking for guidance on effective co-parenting.

Connect with Dr. Karen S. Bonnell:

Website: https://substack.com/@karensbonnell

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbonnell/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/karenbonnell

Amazon Author's Page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00M8VZXCE/about?ccs_id=b46b9ec2-68be-4507-a24f-ecf728ec5a2c

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Aimee Says: AI, Advocacy, and Surviving Abuse

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 10:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Anne K. Wintemute, Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says—an innovative AI-powered support tool designed for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence.

We explore what makes this tool so powerful, how it supports survivors in moments of confusion or overwhelm, and the ways it helps people find their voice, advocate for themselves, and regain a sense of grounding when everything feels like it’s spinning.

Key Topics Covered:

Why Aimee Says was created and the critical gap it fills for survivors—one that existing resources and systems often fail to address.
How Aimee Says differs from tools like ChatGPT, and why it’s specifically designed with survivor safety, validation, and advocacy in mind.
How post-separation abuse is rarely researched or meaningfully addressed, and why survivors are so often expected to “move on” while the abuse continues.
The reality that the burden of proof so often falls on the victim—not the perpetrator—and how easily emotions can take over during testimony. We discuss how this AI tool helps survivors stay grounded, clear, and regulated when it matters most.
Using Aimee Says to navigate complex dynamics with court-appointed minor’s counsel or custodial evaluators.
How Aimee Says can support survivors in rebuilding trust in new relationships, recognizing triggers, and navigating healthy relationship dynamics moving forward.

“The antidote to chaos is clarity.” - Anne K. Wintemute

About Our Guest: Anne K Wintemute

Anne K. Wintemute is the Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says, an AI-powered support tool created for survivors of relationship abuse and domestic violence. With deep expertise in post-separation abuse and survivor advocacy, Anne developed Aimee Says to address critical gaps in existing support systems and help survivors find clarity, grounding, and their voice. She is a frequent speaker and advocate at the intersection of trauma-informed care, technology, and survivor empowerment.

Who This Episode Is For:

Survivors of relationship abuse or domestic violence who are seeking clarity, validation, and tools to help them find their voice.
Anyone navigating the family court system, including interactions with custodial evaluators or court-appointed minors’ counsel.
Advocates, therapists, and legal professionals who want to better understand survivor-centered, trauma-informed support tools.
Individuals are rebuilding trust after abusive relationships and learning how to navigate new dynamics with greater confidence and self-awareness.
Anyone interested in how ethical, purpose-driven AI can be used to support healing, advocacy, and personal empowerment.

Connect with Anne K. Wintemute:

Website: https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-wintemute-897077106/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Book: Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Narcissistic Abuse: The Signs, the Damage, and What You Must Know to Protect Yourself

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 11:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Dr. Kerry McAvoy, a retired clinical psychologist, author, leading expert on narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships, and a survivor of narcissistic abuse herself.

We explore what narcissism truly is, why this form of abuse is uniquely destabilizing, how to recognize the signs, what to watch for, and how to protect yourself — including how to reclaim and rebuild your life after the relationship ends.

This is NOT a breakup story. It’s a survival conversation.

Key Topics Covered:

A clinical definition of narcissism, and how it differs from ordinary selfishness — including distinctions between narcissism, psychopathy, and sociopathy
How victims are selected, and why survivors are often among the strongest, most capable individuals — contrary to common misconceptions
What a relationship with someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) looks and feels like from the inside
What makes narcissistic abuse uniquely harrowing, and how it can permanently rewire victims’ brain functioning long after the relationship ends
Why survivors often stay longer than outsiders expect — and why “just leaving” is rarely simple
How abuse frequently escalates after the relationship ends, and the forms it takes
Why being targeted does not end with separation — even when the abuser remarries or appears to move on
Practical strategies to reclaim your life rather than living in fear of the next reaction or move
Dating after narcissistic abuse, including warning signs to recognize early and when to walk away

“If you feel like everything is risky, like you're walking on water and you're trying to manage another person's emotional response, I think that's a sign that something's wrong.” - Dr. Kerry McAvoy

About Our Guest: Dr. Kerry McAvoy

Dr. Kerry McAvoy is a retired clinical psychologist, author, and leading expert on narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships with over 25 years of clinical experience. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast, where she combines research-backed insight with personal experience to help survivors understand abusive dynamics and reclaim their lives. Her memoir Love You More offers a candid look at her own journey through narcissistic abuse, and her work — including books and courses — provides practical guidance for those healing from trauma and confusion caused by manipulative partners.

Who This Episode Is For:

Survivors of narcissistic abuse seeking clarity, validation, and language for their experience
Anyone navigating separation, divorce, or post-separation conflict with a high-conflict or narcissistic partner
Those questioning whether what they experienced was “really abuse.”
Professionals, friends, or family members wanting a deeper understanding of narcissistic dynamics
Survivors preparing to date again and hoping to recognize red flags early
Anyone rebuilding their sense of self after a relationship that distorted reality

Big Five Personality Test - to assess your personality style. Narcissistic abuse survivors tend to score high on agreeableness and conscientiousness.

“Is It Toxic or Troubled” survey with a free online self-paced course to help those with a troubling relationship, be it a romantic partner, a friend, a co-worker, or a family member.

Connect with Dr. Kerry McAvoy:

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

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Why Exes Are So Tempting

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I’m joined by Dr. Marni Feuerman, a distinguished psychotherapist based in South Florida and widely recognized for her expertise in relationships. Together, we dive into why exes can be so tempting—whether it’s the same ex or the same pattern in a different face. We unpack why we tend to idolize past partners, explore the personality traits that make some people more likely to return to an ex, and discuss how to break the cycle and move forward in a healthier, more intentional way.

Key Topics Covered:

Why exes can be so tempting—and why the pull can feel so strong
When going back to an ex might be a good idea… and when it’s a clear mistake
How personal growth (or the lack of it) impacts your decision-making about revisiting past relationships
The boundaries you need to set to move on and break the cycle truly
The personality traits and attachment styles that make some people more likely to repeat old relationship patterns
How loneliness, fear of being single, and emotional vulnerability impact decisions about reconnecting with an ex
The role social media and digital contact play in reigniting old relationships
Self-reflection questions to help identify unresolved feelings and determine whether revisiting an ex is healthy or harmful

About Our Guest: Dr. Marni Feuerman

Dr. Marni Feuerman is a distinguished psychotherapist based in South Florida, specializing in relationships and personal growth. She is widely recognized for her expertise in helping individuals and couples navigate breakups, understand attachment patterns, and build healthier relationship habits. With years of clinical experience and a compassionate, insightful approach, Dr. Feuerman provides practical guidance for creating meaningful connections and breaking repetitive relationship cycles.

Who This Episode Is For:

Anyone struggling with the pull of an ex or wondering why past relationships feel so tempting
People who have found themselves repeating old relationship patterns and want to understand why
Those navigating breakups or divorces and seeking clarity on moving forward in a healthy way
Listeners are curious about how attachment styles, personal growth, and emotions influence decisions about reconnecting with an ex
Anyone looking for practical strategies and boundaries to break the cycle and build healthier future relationships

“Time is your friend in these circumstances. You should not need to rush anything, especially with a new partner or making a decision.” - Dr. Marni Feuerman

Connect with Dr. Marni Feuerman:

Website: https://thetalkingsolution.com/ , https://www.drmarnionline.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarnifeuerman/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrMarniFeuerman

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Unfiltered Truths: Men, Masculinity, and Life After Divorce

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Rene Garcia, a men’s divorce and recovery coach who helps men rediscover their identity and masculinity after divorce.

This fascinating conversation offers women a rare glimpse into the male perspective—what men are truly thinking, feeling, and experiencing during and after divorce, but often don’t share.

If you’ve ever been curious about what’s really going on inside a man’s mind after a relationship ends—and how we can begin to bridge that gap—this episode is for you.

Prepare yourself for an unfiltered discussion.

Key Topics Covered:

Inside the male mindset during and after divorce: emotional, mental, and identity shifts from a man’s perspective
Why men are often less emotionally prepared for divorce than women
Divorce recovery timeline for men: what healing realistically looks like
Custody battles and co-parenting challenges men face after divorce
Dating after divorce for men: common mistakes and changes needed for success
How men rebuild confidence, self-worth, and masculinity after divorce
What men wish women understood about their experience during separation and divorce
How to connect with our guest, Rene Garcia, men’s divorce and recovery coach

“The hard part is the divorce. The loss is what scares me at night. But the recovery is a lot easier. It is so much easier than guys think, because they start realizing that they can focus on themselves.” - Rene Garcia

About Our Guest: Rene Garcia

Rene Garcia is the founder of Men’s Divorce Coaching (MeDiCo), a divorce and recovery coach who helps men navigate the emotional, strategic, and personal challenges that come with divorce and post‑divorce life. Through one‑on‑one coaching, group support, and a structured recovery framework, Rene works with men worldwide on rebuilding confidence, identity, decision‑making, and future relationships after divorce.

Who This Episode Is For

Women who want a deeper understanding of what men experience during and after divorce
Men navigating separation, custody challenges, or rebuilding their lives post-divorce
Anyone curious about male emotional processing, dating after divorce, or long-term relationship recovery
Listeners seeking unfiltered insight into the male perspective on divorce and healing

Connect with Rene Garcia:

Website: www.mensdivorcecoaching.com

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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The Love You Deserve

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore modern dating, healthy relationships, and how to raise your standards without building emotional walls.

I’m joined by renowned dating coach and relationship expert Evan Marc Katz, author of four books and host of the Love U Podcast with nearly 3 million downloads. His work has been featured on The Today Show, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal.

Together, we break down how to recognize healthy love, shift dating patterns, and choose the relationship you truly deserve.

Key Topics Covered:

Overcoming trust issues and dating after disappointment
Why “mixed signals” usually aren’t confusing—and what they really mean
How to tell if he’s looking for short-term fun versus long-term commitment
Do men actually listen to what women say in dating and relationships?
The difference between being ready to date and simply craving validation
The hard dating truths divorced women often avoid—but need to hear
The most common red flags women ignore early on
Why dating apps are a necessary part of modern dating
Intimacy early in dating and how to know when the timing is right
The best dating advice people hate hearing—but works

“It’s not right versus wrong, it’s effective versus ineffective. If what you’re doing is working for you, then keep doing it.” - Evan Marc Katz

About Our Guest: Evan Marc Katz

Renowned dating coach and relationship expert Evan Marc Katz, who’s helped thousands of smart, successful women find lasting love. He is the author of four books, his Love U Podcast has nearly 3 million downloads, and he has been featured in hundreds of media outlets, including Today, the New York Times, and the Wall St. Journal.

Who This Episode Is For:

Women navigating modern dating and relationship burnout
Anyone struggling with trust issues or mixed signals
Divorced or newly single women reentering the dating world
Those questioning whether a relationship has real long-term potential
Listeners are ready to raise their standards and choose healthier love

Connect with Evan Marc Katz:

Website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Rebound Relationships Explained: The Psychology, Biology, and Heartbreak

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 11:00:00 GMT

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby—licensed psychologist, marriage and family therapist, board-certified life coach, and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching—to venture down a dark and winding tunnel: rebound relationships. Together, we explore what makes rebounds so powerful, unpack the biological forces driving them, and examine how to survive the heartbreak that often follows when the adventure ends.

If you think a rebound could never happen to you, think again. It’s not about how smart, experienced, or “healed” you are—these relationships have a way of sneaking in. This episode helps you recognize the signs, understand the dynamics, and navigate rebounds with clarity and compassion.

Key Topics Covered:

What a rebound relationship is—and the key identifiers that help you recognize one
Why rebound relationships are so irresistible
Why do rebounds hurt more and feel more devastating than the long-term marriage or partnership you left
The biology behind rebound dynamics and how your body responds when you’re in one
Practical tips for healing and recovering from the heartache
Casual sex and its impact on women
Whether physical and sexual attraction can grow if it isn’t present at the beginning
What a truly healthy relationship feels like
IMPORTANT: Not all therapists are the same, and not all are equipped to help you effectively process and heal from heartache.

“If somebody can't answer why their relationship ended and how they co‑created what happened, it's very likely they will drag the same things into whatever partnership they get into again.” - Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

About Our Guest: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby is a licensed psychologist, marriage and family therapist, and board-certified life coach. She is the founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching, where she helps individuals and couples build healthy, meaningful relationships and navigate major life transitions. Known for blending evidence-based psychology with warmth and real-world insight, Dr. Bobby is also a sought-after speaker, author, and podcast host dedicated to helping people create lives—and relationships—that truly work.

Who This Episode Is For:

Anyone who has found themselves in a rebound relationship—or worries they might be in one now
People who have separated or divorced and believe they don’t fall into the rebound category
Those who consider themselves self-aware or “healed,” yet want to understand why rebounds still happen
Listeners seeking clarity on what healthy love actually feels like before entering their next relationship

At Growing Self, we have a team of amazing clinicians who specialize in love, happiness, and success, many of whom have expertise in Heartbreak Recovery and Divorce Counseling. Check it out by clicking on this link: https://www.growingself.com/divorce-counseling/

Connect with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby:

Website: www.growingself.com

Social Media: @growing_self

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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From Pain to Peace: One Divorce Story of Growth and Civility

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore a more positive side of divorce. While high-conflict divorce can be messy and emotionally draining, not every breakup stays that way. Host Ksenia Muench sits down with Doug Sandler to hear his personal story—from the challenges he faced during his difficult divorce to how he eventually found resolution and growth. This episode offers insights into navigating breakups, coping with divorce, and finding hope even in tough times. Listen in to discover Doug’s journey and see that not every divorce ends in heartbreak.

Key Topics Covered:

The pivotal moment that sparked change during a difficult divorce.
How support from friends, mediators, or time helped navigate challenges.
Letting go of limiting beliefs and shifting perspectives on an ex-partner.
The role of empathy and understanding in fostering civility.
Changes in communication and the importance of setting respectful boundaries.
Choosing civility over conflict, even when anger resurfaces.
Differentiating between forgiveness and cooperation in co-parenting or separation.
Personal growth and lessons learned through the divorce process.
Advice for navigating the “ugly” phase of a breakup.
Reflection on what truly matters in moving forward after divorce.

“To stay together and be miserable makes no sense. Either figure out how to be happy or move on and be happy. Those are really your only two choices.” - Doug Sandler

About Our Guest: Doug Sandler

Doug Sandler is an entrepreneur, bestselling author (Nice Guys Finish First), and podcast host (The Nice Guys on Business). With over 30 years of experience, he helps people build meaningful connections, navigate challenging conversations, and grow personally and professionally—even through difficult life transitions like divorce.

Who This Episode Is For:

Individuals going through a divorce are looking for guidance and hope.
People seeking strategies to communicate more respectfully and maintain civility with an ex.
Anyone interested in personal growth and learning from the challenges of breakups.
Listeners curious about real-life stories of transformation and finding resolution after divorce.

Connect with Doug Sandler:

Website: https://www.dougsandler.com/ , https://turnkeypodcast.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/doug-sandler/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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When Husbands Disappear: The Runaway Husbands Phenomenon

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Vikki Stark, psychotherapist and author of Runaway Husbands, to explore why some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorce.

We unpack what defines a runaway husband, the role of emotional avoidance, fear of conflict, and identity loss, and how sudden withdrawal and lack of closure impact spouses, families, and children. This conversation offers insight for anyone navigating divorce, separation, or emotional abandonment—and a deeper understanding of men’s emotional coping in modern relationships.

Key Topics Covered:

What the “Runaway Husbands” phenomenon really means
Why do some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorce
Emotional avoidance, conflict fear, and identity loss in men
The psychological impact of abandonment on spouses and families
Whether runaway husbands are becoming more common today
Why closure is often missing—and how to heal without it
What women wish they had understood sooner about emotional withdrawal
How to move forward after a sudden separation or divorce

Who This Episode Is For:

Women experiencing sudden separation or divorce
Anyone dealing with emotional abandonment or lack of closure
Listeners interested in relationship psychology and divorce recovery
Those seeking clarity around men’s emotional behavior in relationships

“Life will go on, and you will have a new chapter, and it might be a very nice chapter.” - Vikki Stark

About Our Guest: Vikki Stark

Vikki Stark is a psychotherapist and author specializing in relationships, marriage breakdown, and emotional abandonment. Her work focuses on helping individuals understand the dynamics of sudden marital disengagement and healing after divorce.

Connect with Vikki Stark:

Website: https://www.vikkistark.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Legal Divorce Vs Catholic Annulment

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Divorce vs. Annulment: Legal and Spiritual Differences Explained

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode, we explore the often-confusing intersection between civil divorce and Catholic annulment, unpacking what each process truly means—and what it does not. We discuss the legal, emotional, and spiritual weight carried by both, especially when faith, identity, and high-conflict relationships are involved. This conversation centers on clarity, boundaries, and honoring lived experience in the midst of profound change.

Key Topics Covered:

Divorce and annulment serve different purposes

⁃ Divorce provides legal closure around property, finances, and custody.

⁃ A Catholic annulment is a spiritual process declaring a sacramental marriage invalid from the start.

⁃ One does not replace or override the other.

Both processes carry deep emotional weight

⁃ Divorce can trigger grief, anger, guilt, relief, or ongoing pain, especially with children involved.

⁃ Annulment may feel like erasure, rejection, or betrayal, particularly for non-initiators.

⁃ All emotional responses are valid and deserve compassion.

Annulment cannot be enforced through civil law

⁃ Courts have no jurisdiction over Church annulments.

⁃ A spouse cannot legally require an annulment as part of a divorce settlement.

⁃ Using annulment as leverage is manipulation, not a legal or moral obligation.

High-conflict dynamics can weaponize faith

⁃ Annulment may be used to protect reputation or shift blame.

⁃ It can rewrite shared history and compound emotional harm.

⁃ Ongoing contact, especially through co-parenting, can slow healing.

Your lived experience remains valid

⁃ Church decisions are made by human institutions and are not infallible.

⁃ An annulment outcome does not define your worth or negate your memories.

⁃ Healing comes from truth, clarity, and self-protection—not control.

“Annulment does not erase memories, children, or emotional bonds. It's a spiritual declaration, not a reset button.” - Ksenia Muench

Grab this handy tool to see the differences side by side

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Building Your Future: Taking Your Idea From Inception To Market Success

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 11:00:00 GMT

Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered dives into entrepreneurship with the founder and the managing partner of Esse Law, Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal. We talk about the right corp structure for your goals, financing, do’s and don’ts for investors, exit strategy, and much more.

Did you know that out of $330 billion invested (yes, BILLIONS), only 2% was invested into female-founded businesses?

Tune in to find out more.

Key Topics Covered:

Legal Structure for your business.

⁃ We discuss legal business structures that go over the differences between when you are doing it on your own and when you are looking for investors.

⁃ We cover the mistakes new founders make and some practical advice on what founders should do before raising money.

Looking for Capital

⁃ In this part of the conversation, we go over what investors are looking for before writing a check.

⁃ Shaheen covers what a good pitch looks like and why it is important to present in a concise manner: Investors invest in YOU.

⁃ “Fun” fact: men founders get funded more easily compared to their female counterparts - why do you think that is?

Exit strategy

⁃ We discuss when it may be the right time to exit, and the answer may surprise you.

⁃ Shaheen goes over the proper planning strategy prior to your planned departure.

Final Thoughts

⁃ We are having some fun with a rapid Q&A session with our guest.

⁃ We cover key takeaways for the brave souls who want to make a difference in this world and how to do it right.

⁃ Connect with our guest.

“You have to be brave and optimistic, but not overly confident… If you can feel like you're on purpose and either that you are being inspired or that you're inspiring other people - If you can make it something larger than just yourself, it will get you through some of those darker, tougher times.” - Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal

Connect with Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal:

Website: https://esselaw.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

https://jj-flizanes.mykajabi.com/14-day-manifestation-challenge-1

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Life After Divorce: Growth, Change, and Your Next Chapter

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Life after divorce doesn’t end when the paperwork is finalized. In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore how divorce can become a catalyst for emotional healing, personal growth, and empowered relationships.

I’m joined by JJ Flizanes, empowerment strategist, relationship and wellness expert, and podcast host, who shares powerful insights on emotional awareness, identity shifts, and intentional healing after divorce.

In This Episode, We Cover:

Why the emotional aftermath of divorce can last for years
The anatomy of emotion and why emotional reactions are normal
Why therapy alone isn’t always effective
How divorce reshapes identity and creates emotional blocks
Ways to release emotional patterns and rebuild self-trust
Letting go of the “old self” and stepping into a new identity
Moving from survival mode to true empowerment
Shifting focus from lack to possibility

14-day Manifestation Challenge starting January 5th

Bonus Resource:

A downloadable worksheet is available to help you reflect on emotional patterns, reconnect with yourself, and begin the healing process discussed in this episode.

Life After Divorce Worksheet

“Your comfort zone keeps you comfortable, but if you want more or better, you have to pass through the comfort zone into something scary.” - JJ Flizanes

Connect with JJ Flizanes:

Website: https://jjflizanes.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Opting Out: Why More Women Choose To Stay Single

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I explore why more women are choosing to stay single—and why this shift is accelerating. Current statistics show that over 37% of women are opting out of romantic partnerships, with projections suggesting that number could reach 50% by 2035. So what’s driving this change?

I share my personal story that led me to opt out of dating, and unpack more reasons behind this shift. The biggest threat to men's loneliness is not another man, but a woman who is fed up with half efforts, not being seen or heard, and who finally knows her worth and chooses herself.

Whether you’re single by choice, happily in a relationship, or feeling frustrated by today’s dating dynamics, this episode is for you. Get comfortable—and let’s get into it.

Topics Covered in This Episode:

Why women are choosing to stay single
Modern dating challenges and dating fatigue
Emotional labor and relationship imbalance
Women, independence, and self-prioritization
Redefining love, fulfillment, and partnership

Perfect For Listeners Interested In:

Women and singleness
Modern dating culture
Relationships and emotional health
Personal growth and independence
Feminine empowerment and choice

“Why we're choosing to stay single? Because it feels lighter. It feels more peaceful. There is no drama.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Making Your Car An Ex Or Lemon Law Explained

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered uses the metaphor of a toxic relationship to unpack what happens when your car turns out to be a “lemon.” Ksenia sits down with lemon law attorney Michelle Fonseca-Kamana of West Coast Lemons APC to explain how lemon laws actually work, what qualifies as a defect, and the myths that confuse most buyers.

Michelle breaks down why repeated repair attempts matter, how safety issues can fast-track your rights, and why documentation is your strongest protection. They also discuss attorney fees, strict timelines, and the risks of used cars, “as is” sales, and new or experimental brands.

It’s an empowering conversation that helps consumers, especially women who are often dismissed at dealerships, understand their rights, protect themselves, and walk away from bad cars before they become toxic relationships.

Key Topics Covered:

Lemon Car “red flags.”

⁃ The Lemon Law is legally defined

⁃ What makes your car a lemon?

⁃ Does having a warranty mean you can’t file your case under Lemon Law?

“Breakup” Process

⁃ We are discussing steps to take once you think your car is a lemon.

⁃ How long does the process usually take? It really depends.

⁃ Worst car manufacturer to deal with.

⁃ The most frequent car brands with a lemon.

“Rebound” Rides

⁃ Are there “healthier” car brands to try post lemon “breakup”?

⁃ We dive into tips on how to avoid getting another lemon.

⁃ We also break down new vs certified pre-owned vs pre-owned: know the difference and don’t believe everything you hear at a dealership.

Final Thoughts

⁃ Our guest shares things she wishes you knew about cars.

⁃ Tips on how to be effective and get the results you want when working with a lemon law attorney.

⁃ Reach out to West Coast Lemon APC to get the exclusive Car Buying 101 guide.

“Knowledge gives you confidence. Once you have that roadmap, you’re better able to stand up for yourself at the dealership.” - Michelle Fonseca-Kamana

Connect with Michelle Fonseca-Kamana:

Website: https://westcoastlemons.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-fonseca-kamana-lemonlawattorney/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/westcoastlemons/?hl=en

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Dating Single Moms: Fun Time or Long Time?

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode, I’m getting a little personal and diving into the often-overlooked topic of boundaries in the dating world—yes, those things we all pretend to have until feelings get involved. I’m sharing my own experiences and breaking down what dating single moms can really look like. Spoiler: it’s not always snack time and superhero movies… but sometimes it is. We’ll also get into why some people tap out before they even tap in, and trust me, the reasons can be wild. It’s all real talk, a little laughter, and hopefully a clearer picture of what you’re signing up for—or running from.

Key Topics Covered:

Current Dating Culture

⁃ Dating after divorce is unavoidable unless you decide to swear it off for good.

⁃ How to lose a guy in 10 days today.

Dating Single Moms

⁃ Is it a fun time or a boundary?

⁃ Why dating single moms is a privilege.

⁃ Why dating single moms is a no-fly zone.

Boundaries in Dating

⁃ Why I don’t date single dads, and it has nothing to do with the children.

⁃ Why ex ex-partners always have a special place in our hearts when we share children?

⁃ It is never over with the ex-partner if you have a cordial and mutually respectful co-parenting relationship.

Lessons Learned

⁃ I talk about emotionally processing statements that can be hurtful or offensive.

⁃ I discuss how to filter out and let go of things that are not relevant or have no impact on our lives.

⁃ I cover how these experiences teach us to establish stronger boundaries and help us elevate.

“Dating is an inevitable part of after-divorce life, unless you decided to swear off dating for good, which is not that challenging, considering how messed up dating culture is today.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

The Power Of Ask Or Permission Granted

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Today we’re sitting down with the incredible Life Coach, Jacqueline Hawk Crichton, who helps us explore what truly happens when we give ourselves permission to ask — to ask for what we want, to set boundaries, and to allow ourselves to be seen and heard.

Have you ever wondered what might have happened if you had simply asked? Because now you know what happens when you don’t — you’re living that version of your life today.

In this conversation, we’ll dive into how to overcome the fear of being labeled as “too much,” “harsh,” or “entitled,” and how to face the fear of rejection head-on. We’ll also explore how to stop standing in our own way so we can reach our goals and create the life we dream of.

So get comfy, grab a snack, and let’s dive in!

Key Topics Covered:

Psychology and Mindset of Asking

⁃ Common fears behind asking

⁃ Is there a difference between a powerful ask to advocate for yourself and being entitled?

Effective Way of Asking

⁃ Core principles of the ask

⁃ Does reading your audience in terms of timing and context matter? Or is it using, looking for a way to hide?

⁃ Common mistakes to avoid

How the ability to ask can change your life

⁃ Professional career growth

⁃ Personal fulfilling relationships

⁃ The outcome of the divorce settlement

Questions to ponder

⁃ What is the best ask you have ever made?

⁃ Is there an ask you regret?

⁃ Would you rather ask or regret not asking?

Final Thoughts

⁃ The struggle to ask is real

⁃ We all seem as if we are waiting for permission without realizing we already have it

⁃ How to learn to feel empowered to advocate for yourself, and why it is easier as we get older

“We will regret more not asking for something than if we do.” - Jacqueline Hawk Crichton

Connect with Jacqueline Hawk Crichton:

Website: https://www.soarcc.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Is It Ever Truly Over?

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode, I’m diving into answering a million-dollar question - Is It Truly ever Over?

The divorce papers are signed, the court dates are behind you, and legally — it’s over. But what happens when your ex just won’t let go? Today, we are unpacking one of the most difficult and emotionally challenging realities: life after a high-conflict divorce, especially when one person can’t — or won’t — move on even if on the surface it looks like they have.

We explore what “final” really means when you're dealing with an obsessive ex, the signs of post-divorce harassment or emotional entanglement, and how to protect your peace, your boundaries, and your future. From co-parenting challenges to stalking, manipulation, or continued legal threats, the fight can often continue long after the ink is dry.

If your divorce is final but the drama continues, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone.

Key Topics Covered:

Forced Presence of Ex

⁃ When your ex continues to show up in your life despite the divorce being final.

⁃ How do they create situations where you’re forced to interact or respond?

Tactics used to maintain engagement and control

⁃ What “no-contact” ideally looks like — and why it’s hard in high-conflict cases.

⁃ Indirect contact through mutual friends, kids, or social media.

⁃ Provoking responses through others or triggering situations.

⁃ Unspoken threats

Obsession vs Closure

⁃ Signs that your ex is not just angry — but obsessed.

⁃ What if it looks like they have moved on, but still won’t let you go?

Why?

⁃ Does WHY really matter?

⁃ Shifting focus from their motives to your protection.

Light at the end of the tunnel

⁃ The slow burn of situations improving over time in high-conflict divorces.

⁃ What you can do to protect yourself.

⁃ Advice from listeners?

“Will it ever stop? It will take years and a lot of actions on her part—creating distance, managing her responses, and letting her boundaries evolve and adjust based on her former spouse’s actions.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Second Time’s the Charm: Dating After Divorce

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Will it ever be me?”—when it comes to love, relationships, and finding the right person? If so, this episode is for you.

Today, we’re joined by Christina Gonzales Hicks, who shares her unique dating journey. Together, we dive deep into what it means to rediscover yourself, align with your highest good, and attract the love you truly deserve.

In this episode, we talk about green and red flags in dating, advice we wish we hadn’t taken, and much more.

Key Topics Covered:

Christina’s story

⁃ Divorce and dating with a twist

The inner work: making powerful internal shifts

⁃ Rediscovering yourself

⁃ Staying authentic and aligned with your core values

⁃ Understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energy

Navigating the challenges of modern dating culture

⁃ How to avoid getting stuck in unfulfilling dating dynamics

⁃ Spotting the right person and knowing when it’s real

GAME Time

⁃ In this part of the interview, I ask our guest rapid-fire, simple questions that reveal some secrets women don’t want you to know, what matters to us, some icks, and more.

Final Thoughts

⁃ Don’t give up - live in the moment and know it is like riding a train: you know your stop is coming up.

“One of the best pieces of advice I got was to do things that you enjoy... because a lot of times where you end up meeting someone that you really want to be with is on whatever you like to do for fun.” - Christina Gonzales Hicks

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Friend Or Foe?

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode, I’m stepping outside my usual comfort zone and doing something I don’t do often — sharing a personal story. It’s a moment in my life that changed the way I see the world, and more importantly, the people in it. Sometimes, it takes a simple experience to truly reveal the character of those around you — who’s genuinely there for you and who only shows up when it’s convenient.

This story is one of those turning points — a situation that, in a way, 'fixed' my vision and helped me see everything more clearly. If you've ever had an eye-opening moment like that, I think you’ll relate.

So, tune in to hear what happened, how it shifted my perspective, and why I believe these experiences, though painful, are necessary. And if you’ve gone through something similar, I’d love to hear your story too.

Key Topics Covered:

Compliments

⁃ Do we know how to accept a compliment?

⁃ Is it cheesy or sincere?

Responses Incoming

⁃ Responses are split into camps of “heck yeah” and “ewww”

⁃ Who is your friend and who is your foe?

Teenager perspective

⁃ Take compliments at face value

⁃ Your true friends celebrate happy moments with you

⁃ Foes make you feel less than

Divorce and friends

⁃ Your experiences update your social circle, with people dropping out and new people coming in

⁃ Is having a small circle of friends good or bad?

⁃ What kind of experiences fix your vision?

“We learn from mistakes way more than we learn from victories.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

The James Bond of Divorce, Or Just a Forensic CPA?

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down with Ruchita Shah, Senior Director at CBIZ Forensic Consulting Group, to uncover how forensic accounting can bring truth and clarity to complex divorces. With years of experience tracing hidden assets and analyzing marital finances, Ruchita reveals how a forensic CPA helps ensure fair settlements and financial transparency when trust has broken down.

We discuss what red flags may signal the need for a forensic expert, how lifestyle analysis shapes spousal support, and why documentation and early action are key to protecting your financial future. Through real-world examples and practical advice, Ruchita shows how understanding your numbers can be one of the most empowering steps in your divorce journey.

Key Topics Covered:

○ Forensic accounting 101

⁃ Understanding the role of a forensic CPA in divorce litigation

⁃ Differences between traditional and forensic CPAs

⁃ How financial investigations help achieve transparency and closure

○ Lifestyle analysis and marital standard of living

⁃ How lifestyle assessments shape spousal support and property division

⁃ Income-based vs. expense-based lifestyle methods

⁃ Why clarity about marital expenses helps both spouses

○ Spotting financial red flags

⁃ Common signs that a forensic investigation may be needed

⁃ When income and lifestyle don’t align

⁃ Evaluating if an investigation is worth the cost and peace of mind

○ The forensic process

⁃ Step-by-step breakdown of how CPAs review disclosures, tax returns, and records

⁃ How assumptions are made when data is incomplete

⁃ Working under an attorney's direction and collaborating with opposing experts

○ Protecting yourself during a divorce

⁃ What to gather early: tax returns, bank statements, and key financial documents

⁃ Why you should file a support order as soon as possible

⁃ Importance of transparency, responsiveness, and involving a financial advisor early

“It’s not just us accountants who learn from lifestyle analysis — it’s the clients too. They realize, often for the first time, what their true expenses are and what their life really costs.” - Ruchita Shah

Connect with Ruchita Shah:

Website: https://www.cbiz.com/about/people/ruchita-shah

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruchita-shahcpa/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Divorce: The Ultimate Group Project

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, I’m taking you on an adventure to uncover what a divorce team really is—and why having one can make all the difference in your journey.

Divorce is not just a legal process; it’s an emotional, financial, and often spiritual transformation. And unless you’ve walked through it before, this stage—the “D” step—can leave you feeling completely overwhelmed, like a deer caught in the headlights.

Today you’ll learn who should be on your team, what roles they play, and how each person can help you move forward with more clarity and confidence. By the end of this episode, you’ll see why you don’t have to face this alone.

Key Topics Covered:

Divorce Team

- What it looks like

- Why do you need a divorce team when you decide to go through with a D word

Who should you approach first?

- Let’s talk about the order in which it is best to contact the team

- What roles do each expert play in the divorce saga?

Common misconceptions

- My attorney is all I need.

- I just know stuff, and I can handle it.

- It is not going to be that bad.

Results

- Proactive vs reactive

- More money in your pocket

- More time in your day for:

• You

• Your family

• Your dream life/career

“Abuse can be very insidious. It’s not always visible. It doesn't always leave bruises.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

From Marriage to Citizenship: What Changes When Divorce Happens?

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down with immigration attorney Evelyn Moon with Evelyn Moon Law PC, to unpack the complex intersection between divorce and immigration status. Whether you’re a green card holder, conditional resident, or in the U.S. on a visa tied to your marriage, divorce can raise serious questions about your legal status. We discuss what happens to your immigration status if you divorce your U.S. citizen, how conditional green card holders can still remove conditions post-divorce, legal protections available to immigrants in abusive marriages, and common pitfalls and myths in immigration and divorce.

Key Topics Covered:

Immigration and Divorce

- We cover the general, typical milestones of immigration status based on marriage, timeline, and conditions.

- We discuss the differences between a conditional and permanent green card, and whether you are still able to obtain a green card after separation/divorce.

Common Scenarios and Legal Guidance

- When divorce happens during a pending adjustment of status.

- A conditional green card holder going through a divorce before removing conditions.

- Legal protections available for immigrant abused spouses and ways to defend yourself from potential retaliation of the abusive, soon-to-be ex.

Let’s bust some immigration myths

- Is there an “automatic” deportation after divorce?

- We discuss what USCIS considers a fake marriage and what triggers the investigation.

- Can one be denaturalized?

Expert advice

- When should you be reaching out to an immigration attorney, and how does the immigration attorney fit into the divorce team?

- We discuss the type of documents to collect and how long you should keep them to protect yourself.

- Our expert shares the most effective way to navigate joint filings and what to do when you share children.

“USCIS understands that circumstances can change... as long as you can prove that that initial marriage was entered in good faith, you're still able to remove that condition with the waiver of the joint filing requirement.” - Evelyn Moon

Connect with Evelyn Moon:

Website: https://evelynmoon.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Coming Home To Yourself

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 10:00:00 GMT

Have you been feeling burned out, stuck, or unfulfilled? Have you ever wondered why everything around you seems to start falling apart when you seem to do everything right?

In this episode, our guest Shadi Sadeghi, a transformational Coach and Energy Practitioner with 17 years of experience, will walk us through what it means to align with your deeper purpose and awaken to your True Self. Using tools like shadow work, dream interpretation, and active imagination, Shadi will show us how to boldly step into the next chapter of our lives with confidence and clarity.

Key Topics Covered:

What is energy work?

- How does it affect your mind, body, and soul?

- What does it look like when you are out of alignment?

Tools and practices to rebalance

- Easy practice to reconnect with your True Self.

- How to differentiate intuition from ego.

- Mindset shifts and lifestyle changes to help you tune into your Higher Self.

Meditation

- We are doing a live meditation and an active imagination session you don’t want to miss.

Misconceptions about Transformation Coaching and Energy Work

- How to respond to nay-sayers or better yet, don’t respond at all.

- Things you wish people understood better about this type of work.

Expert advice

- What to do when you feel stuck or lost.

- When to engage a Transformational Coach and how to determine if YOU are ready.

"You have to get through that dark tunnel before you can get to your true self, truly... that's what Shadow Work is..." - Shadi Sadeghi

Connect with Shadi Sadeghi:

Instagram: @ThisLifeFulfilled

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

What Happens When Love Turns Violent: A Lawyer Explains

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this gripping episode, a seasoned criminal law attorney, Fred Thiagarajah with Right Choice Law, breaks down what happens when relationships take a dangerous turn. From warning signs of abuse to the legal steps victims can take, the episode explores how the justice system responds to domestic violence. The lawyer shares real-world cases, explains the difference between protective and restraining orders, the role of law enforcement, and offers guidance for those trapped in toxic or violent relationships. It’s an essential listen for anyone seeking to understand the legal and emotional complexities when love becomes a threat.

Key Topics Covered:

Understanding Domestic Violence

- What is legally defined as DV?

- Common types of charges

Legal Process

- Reasons for arrest and what happens after

- Can charges be dropped if a victim doesn’t want to press charges?

- Understanding the difference between:

Protective order and restraining order. How effective are they?
No contact and protective order

- Roles of a prosecutor and a criminal defense attorney in a DV case

Challenges in the legal world of DV

- How are false accusations handled?

- How does the legal system handle the victim’s fear of participation?

- We discuss instances when DV cases involve children and custody during divorce.

- Common misconceptions about DV.

Closing thoughts

- Advice for people seeking help.

- Guidance for people accused of DV

- Connect with our guest

“False accusations are handled the same way actual accusations are handled. We have to go through all the evidence.” - Fred Thiagarajah

Connect with Fred Thiagarajah:

Website: https://www.fredthia.com/

Phone: (949) 265-7005

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

The Art of Letting Go: How Clear Space Creates Clear Mind

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:00:00 GMT

Is your stuff stressing you out? In this episode, we dive into the powerful connection between physical clutter and mental overwhelm. You’ll learn how the things you hold onto might be holding you back — and how creating physical space can open the door to emotional clarity, focus, and peace of mind.

Our guest, Nancy Eaton with Inspired Living by Nancy Eaton, shares practical tips for decluttering, explores why we get so attached to things, and offers a fresh perspective on how letting go of excess can help you feel lighter — inside and out.

Key Topics Covered:

Understanding decluttering

- The difference between decluttering and organizing.

- The struggle of letting go is real, and why.

Mind and body connection

- Does physical space mess affect your mental well-being?

- We discuss the areas in your house that may impact your emotional state the most.

Practical tips on DIY declutter

- How to get started.

- Have friends join you, but invite those who can give real feedback.

- Know when to engage a professional.

Decluttering as a Self-Care

- Folding laundry can be a great meditating moment - say what?

- How can you achieve emotional freedom and energetic shift after letting go, especially during big life transitions?

- Habits to maintain a clear space and a clear mind long-term.

“Decluttering gives you an opportunity to take out the things that no longer serve you; it’s about letting go and opening space for you to grow.” - Nancy Eaton

Connect with Nancy Eaton:

Website: https://www.nancy-eaton.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Uncoupling the Balance Sheet

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we’re joined by a seasoned CPA, Allison Green with Green Zahn & Associates, to unpack the often-overlooked financial fallout of divorce—taxes. From filing status and alimony changes to hidden tax liabilities and asset division traps, we break down the key financial considerations that can impact your cash flow long after the divorce settlement is signed. Whether you're in the midst of a separation, thinking about filing, or supporting someone going through it, this conversation is packed with tips and insights to learn how to protect your finances, prepare for tax season post-divorce, and make informed decisions that set you up for a more secure future.

Key Topics Covered:

Divorce and Taxes

- What makes taxes different during divorce

- Filings statuses and rules

- To TurboTax or Not To TurboTax

Asset Division and Tax Consequences

- Is it tax-free?

- Asset equalization vs asset liquidation

- Transfers vs distributions

- How to create a tax-smart settlement

Spousal and Child support during taxes

- Post-2019 rule changes on spousal support

- Child support vs. dependency exemptions

- What is the best filing status for you?

Proactive Tax Strategies

- When should you involve a CPA?

- Common mistakes to avoid

- Importance of updating W4

“A little bit of planning in the beginning and having somebody there to talk to and to kind of tell you what to look at can make all the difference in the world.” - Allison Green

Connect with Allison Green:

Website: http://www.greenzahn.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

What Happened to Our Humanity? Or September 10th Assassination

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Ksenia discussed the societal decline in humanity, prompted by the assassination of Charlie Kirk on September 10th. She condemns the celebration of his death, regardless of political views, and highlights the intolerance and violence it represents. She emphasizes the importance of kindness and tolerance, criticizing the focus on gun control as a solution to violence, arguing that it's people, not guns, that pull triggers. She draws parallels to the indifference shown in the stabbing of a Ukrainian refugee and the ugliness revealed in divorce, urging for a return to civility and respect for differences.

Key Topics Covered:

The danger of intolerance

- Disagreements are escalating into violence rather than civil discourse.

- Society is becoming less accepting of differing opinions and beliefs.

- The inability to tolerate differences undermines the fabric of community.

Recognizing violence as a human problem

- Guns and weapons are not the root cause; people are.

- Restricting access to weapons may not address the underlying issues of hatred and violence.

- True change requires addressing the mindset and motivations behind violent acts.

Divorce doesn’t create ugliness; it reveals it

- The stress of divorce often brings out negative traits that were already present.

- Disagreements in divorce should be handled with civility and respect.

- The way people treat each other during divorce reflects deeper personal values.

Restoring kindness and humanity

- Everyone should strive to treat strangers and loved ones with more kindness.

- Cherish family and relationships, as life is unpredictable.

- Self-reflection and compassion are essential for healing society’s divisions.

“The differences is what makes us beautiful, that’s what makes us human. When did it become that we cannot disagree with each other?” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Co-Parenting or Co-Warring? Surviving the Ex Showdown

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we tackle one of the most challenging parenting dynamics—co-parenting with a high-conflict ex. Whether you’re dealing with constant arguments, manipulation, or a lack of cooperation, this episode offers practical strategies to reduce stress and protect your children from the fallout.

Whether you're fresh out of a contentious divorce or years into a rocky custody arrangement, this episode is your toolkit for finding peace in the “co-parenting” chaos.

Key Topics Covered:

What is High-Conflict Co-Parenting

- The traits of high-conflict co-parenting

- Why does it happen?

“Monkey in the middle”

- Kids are used as pawns, but don’t let them be

- What your children feel and go through when they get sucked into this “game”

- How to protect your littles

High-Conflict Parents’ New Boo(s)

- New “parent” or new partner? Power moves your ex may use by bringing a new person into the picture.

- It may feel as if there are now 2 people against 1, and the one being you.

Gameplan to Survive the Ex Showdown

- Iron-clad co-parenting plan - nothing is left up to imagination.

- Not every fight is worth your time and energy - be selective in what you engage in.

- Keep your communications professional and focused on kids. Ensure everything is in writing.

- Involve help if needed, whether it is legal or from a co-parenting therapist - there is no shame in asking for backup.

- Radical acceptance, your ex might never change - approach this co-parenting journey as if you are a single parent and keep your focus on the kids.

- High-conflict co-parenting is extremely challenging, but set your boundaries, keep your cool, and put your kids first. You’ve got this — even if your ex doesn’t.

“Protect your sanity at all costs, walk away from fights. And I'm not saying, be a doormat, be the door. When you have control, you open it and you close it and say, ‘No, thank you. I am good.’” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Wills, Trusts, and Exes: Estate Planning Post-Love

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down with an experienced estate planning attorney, Jennifer Elliott with Ocean Estate Law, to discuss the intertwining of divorce and estate planning. From wills and trusts to beneficiary designations and powers of attorney, we explore how divorce can drastically impact your estate plan — and what steps you must take to protect yourself and your loved ones during and after the process.

Whether you're in the midst of a divorce, recently divorced, or helping someone else through it, this episode offers practical advice and legal insights to ensure your estate plan reflects your new reality and is probate-proof.

Key Topics Covered:

Why estate planning matters
How divorce impacts your estate plan

- Mistakes people make when it comes to estate planning after divorce

- Difference between emotional and legal closure

Documents to update and why

- Wills and trusts

- Beneficiary designations

- Power of attorney and healthcare directives

Legal and financial implications

- What happens if the estate plan is not updated?

- Laws that may potentially protect you, but there are drawbacks

Creating a probate-proof estate plan

- When is a good time to revisit an existing estate plan?

- How soon after a divorce should you update the documents?

- How long and how much on average does it take to put it in place?

Final thoughts

- Importance of working with the estate planning attorney vs an AI template

- Tips on selecting a quality attorney

“When you get divorced, the top three things you should do: understand your divorce judgment, redo your estate plan, and then go start chapter two and enjoy life.” - Jennifer Elliott

Connect with Jennifer Elliott:

Website: https://oceanestatelaw.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Love Lost, Loan Approved: Mortgage Broker Spills the Tea on the Mortgage Math

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down with an experienced mortgage broker, Chris Chudacoff with True Point Lending, to unpack the complexities of getting a home loan during and after a divorce.

We explore how your marital status, credit profile, and income situation can affect your eligibility—and what lenders look for when your financial life is in transition. Whether you're looking to refinance, buy out your ex, or start fresh in a new home, this episode offers practical advice and strategies to help you move forward.

So, grab your coffee, get comfortable, and let’s make this whole mortgage thing a little less confusing and stressful.

Key Topics Covered:

Types of loans available and what their differences are
Financial dynamics of divorce

- First financial steps someone should take once divorce proceedings start.

- Common challenges newly single individuals face when applying for a loan.

Getting a loan during a divorce

- Getting a loan during a divorce

- What is considered income?

- Are there any legal or logistical limitations?

- Practical advice - to do or not to do…

Loan post-divorce

- Establishing solo credit and individual financial identity post-divorce

- Things to know about spousal and child support as an income

- Specific requirements for self-employed

- The importance of working with the right mortgage broker

Strategies to improve loan eligibility

- The importance of working with the right mortgage broker

- How much down payment do you actually need?

- Are co-signers a good idea?

The biggest mistake our guest shares he sees as a mortgage broker
When and how to contact our guest

“I still think real estate's a great investment. ... If you're going to own a home to live in that that's where you call home and build community, and you're going to have the home for more than five to six years, you're going to withstand, typically, any bad cycle of real estate anyway.” - Chris A. Chudacoff

Connect with Chris A. Chudacoff:

Website: http://www.truepointlending.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-chudacoff/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Divorce & Real Estate: Selling the Past to Build the Future

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this insightful episode, we dive into the complex intersection of real estate and divorce, exploring how property is handled during the dissolution of a marriage. Divorce doesn’t just split a relationship—it can split a home.

We’re joined by Jennifer Purzycki of Purzycki White Real Estate, who brings her firsthand expertise to the table as we explore the often-overlooked challenges of handling property during a divorce. From emotional decisions to legal complexities, Jennifer shares practical strategies and real-world experiences that help make the process more manageable.

Key Topics Covered:

What makes selling a home during divorce proceedings different from a traditional sale

- The importance of working with a real estate agent who understands and specializes in divorce

Emotional and Legal Dynamics of the Sale

- Remaining neutral when working with a divorcing couple

- Communications if the parties are not speaking

- Working with attorneys, mediators, and both spouses to reach fair outcomes

Logistics of a sale

- Sale price determination and pre-sale preparation

- Sale vs buy-out and when to refinance

- Division of sale proceeds

Real-life examples

- Jennifer walks us through her experience of working with divorcing couples - balancing neutrality, managing conflict, and keeping the transaction on track.

Advice for making logical, informed decisions rather than emotional ones

- How to select the right realtor

- How to treat it as a business transaction

- How to connect with the guest

“Selling a house during a divorce isn't just about the property. It's about dividing one asset between two people who have very different goals, have different timelines, and have a different emotional investment in that property. It's rarely just a transaction. There's part negotiating, there's a lot of counseling involved.” - Jennifer Purzycki

Connect with Jennifer Purzycki:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenphomes/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Fifty Shades of Divorce: Single Era

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 10:00:00 GMT

Singlehood, far from being a void, is a powerful season of self-discovery. It teaches us to move through healing with gentleness, to embrace solitude as strength, and to redefine what love truly means. In this time, we grow emotionally independent, set healthy boundaries, and begin living with a purpose that aligns with who we truly are. By building a life you genuinely love, you’re not simply preparing for a partner—you become your own home first. And in doing so, you naturally attract what is aligned with your soul, not just what is conveniently available.

Key Topics Covered:

1. Singlehood is a Journey of Self-Discovery

It often begins with pain and uncertainty, but over time, it reveals growth, strength, and self-awareness.

This chapter is not a pause but a passage into becoming.

2. Healing Is Not Linear

Expect waves of progress, setbacks, and revelations.

Through self-reflection, honesty, and grace, the path still moves forward.

3. Emotional Independence is Empowering

Learn to validate your own experiences and find comfort in solitude.

Being single is not a deficiency but a rich opportunity for personal development.

4. Redefine Love and Relationships

Seek partners who enhance, not complete you.

Establish clear boundaries, know your worth, and release the myth that love defines value.

5. Build a Life Rooted in Authenticity

Pour into yourself. Pursue passions, rest, and grow.

The right relationships will come not from desperation but from the natural pull of a whole, thriving life.

“Your single era is where you define your values, your goals, and what you actually want outside of someone else's expectations.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Divorced, Not Deranged: Parenting Without Screwing Kids Up

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In today’s episode, we’re joined by a remarkable guest who grew up navigating life between two homes. Now a successful attorney, devoted husband, and proud father of two, he reflects candidly on the challenges he faced as a child of divorced parents. He shares the emotional hurdles of growing up in a separated family and his ongoing journey to break the cycle, creating a stable, loving environment for his own family.

Key Topics Covered:

Personal story

- It’s about time…

- Separation of parents was easy - what came after was worse.

Adjustment to a new life

- Biggest challenges

- Tools used to deal with the conflict

Don’t want to turn it into a therapy session but…

- What does it feel like for a child when one parent doesn’t stop talking negatively about the other parent?

- Can I make it stop?

Reflection (47 years later)

- Does it get better?

- The lasting effects of parental conflict on children

Advice for divorcing parents

- Keep kids out of the conflict — no matter what (it does get complicated when only one parent follows this piece of advice)

- When new partners come in, if they are loving toward your children, let them be loved. It is not a competition - loving and supportive parents can never be replaced by a new person in your kids’ lives.

“We must be willing to let go of the life we've planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” - Jeff Roberts

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

High-Conflict Divorce or Psychological Warfare

Tue, 29 Jul 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we're diving into a side of divorce that’s rarely talked about—but deeply felt by those who live through it. This is not your typical “we grew apart” story. We're exploring the dark undercurrent of high-conflict divorces—when a legal separation turns into psychological warfare. Not all divorces are created equal. Some become battlegrounds, filled with ongoing legal fights, custody disputes, refusal to co-parent, false accusations, manipulations, and financial sabotage. Today, we are going to talk about what makes high-conflict divorce so uniquely damaging, and—more importantly—how to protect yourself, your children, and your mental health when caught in the storm.

If you're navigating this path—or know someone who is—this episode is for you.

Key Topics Covered:

What is High-Conflict Divorce

- Relentless process that haunts you in court and at home

- “Recipe” for High-Conflict couple

What Psychological warfare looks like

- Gaslighting

- Alienation of children

- False accusations

- Draining finances

Real stories all sound the same - just different characters

- Summary of how high-conflict divorces typically play out

- It is a campaign to destroy the targeted party.

Courts and high-conflict divorces

- Both parties are seen as being difficult

- Hard to prove abuse not seen by a naked eye

- Tips to prepare your case for the court

Survival tools

- Limit communications to neutral or monitored channels like Talking Parents or Our FamilyWizard

- Respond, don’t react - pause before replying

- Reply only when it is warranted when it comes to custodial or peaceful matters, any other communication should be done through the attorneys

- Build a safe circle of support

- Engage with a therapist who specializes in this type of trauma

- Choose your battles

- Accept that parallel parenting is your best option.

High-Conflict divorce is not for the faint of heart BUT you are not powerless and you are not alone.

Books to consider:

Too Good To Leave Too Bad To Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Your Pocket Therapist by Dr. Sherrie Campbell

“Choose your battles. Not every fight is worth having, especially when the other person is just fighting to win, not to solve.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Laurel Brauer, CFLS: Cut the drama, not just the ties: Family Law explained by a Divorce Attorney

Tue, 22 Jul 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we sit down with a seasoned family law attorney to explore the complexities of divorce. We discuss the legal process, common challenges, and misconceptions, and offer valuable guidance to help you make informed decisions and navigate the emotional and legal aspects with confidence.

Key Topics Covered:

Legal Process Breakdown

- Divorce in a few simple steps

- Divorce timeline

- Mediation vs Litigation vs Private Judge - what’s better?

- Prenups and Postnups - yay or nay?

Divorce misconceptions

- Everything is split 50/50 - true or false?

- You don’t need an attorney if it is amicable

- Women always “win” - origin and what it actually means

Law is changing

- How abuse may affect the split of assets

Story time

- My guest shares an inspiring story when working with a divorcing couple

Guidance

- How to choose the right attorney

- Attorneys vs emotions of divorce

- How to connect with the guest

“Domestic violence doesn't happen in a vacuum, and someone who is an abuser has that in their background; they've come to learn or think that somehow that behavior is okay.” - Laurel Brauer, CFLS

Connect with Laurel Brauer, CFLS:

Website: https://www.brauerlawcorp.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

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Single Mom Syndrome - Is It Even Real?

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we dissect the concept of Single Mom Syndrome—a term used to describe the emotional, psychological, and practical challenges single moms face. We unpack the origin of the phrase, explore both the positive and negative ways it’s perceived, and bring awareness to the unique struggles that single mothers navigate daily. Importantly, it’s not a disease, but rather a facet of divorced life and the toll it can take.

Key Topics Covered:

What is Single Mom Syndrome?

- Origin and meaning

- Perception vs reality of being a single mom

Misconceptions of the term

- Is it a medical symptom or a social judgment?

- She is a “bitter” single mom who is hyper independent and wants to do it on her own

- There is no “Single Dad Syndrome.”

Lived experience

- Emotional and mental burden of being a single mom

- Parenting without a partner

- Financial stress, weight of making major life decisions on your own, guilt, pressure of trying to be the best mom to your kids, and subsequent burnout

Let’s switch the narrative

- You are not sick - you are doing the job meant for 2 people

- It is not a stigma but a FLEX, superpower

- You are doing great!

Tips

- Surround yourself with people who understand

- Learn to ask for help and outsource what you can

- Take moments for yourself

- It is OK to say NO

“It's not a single mom 'syndrome’... It’s a superpower. I think it's more like a flex. It's a main character energy.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Behind Closed Doors: A Police Officer’s Perspective on Domestic Violence

Tue, 08 Jul 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Officer Fernando Jimenez, a veteran law enforcement officer whose experience includes handling domestic violence cases. We explore the realities of domestic abuse from the front lines—what officers see, how they respond, and the systemic challenges survivors face. Our guest offers insight into the emotional, legal, and safety complexities of domestic violence and discusses stories that highlight the importance of awareness around this important topic.

Key Topics Covered:

Understanding Domestic Violence

- What constitutes domestic violence

- Battery vs Domestic Violence

- Common myths and misconceptions

Law Enforcement Response

- How police respond to domestic violence calls

- The protocol for handling victims and perpetrators

- Discussion of the Gabby Petito's case as an example

Barriers to Reporting and Leaving

- Why victims often don’t report abuse, stay, or come back after leaving

- The role of fear, brainwashing, low self-worth, and feelings of hope

Legal Processes

- What happens after an arrest

- Gaps and challenges in the current system

Resources and Support

- Where victims can turn for help

- “Help these resources and support help you.”

Click here to access RESOURCES ON DOMESTIC ABUSE: https://ssa.ocgov.com/cash-calfresh/calworks/employment-services/domestic-abuse-services/domestic-abuse-resources

“We can't stop trying. You've got to keep raising awareness and letting the victims know that there are resources.” - Fernando Jimenez

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Battle of Sexes or who wins in divorce?

Tue, 01 Jul 2025 10:00:00 GMT

Divorce is often framed as a battle, but is there ever a true "winner"? In this episode, we unpack the emotional, legal, financial, and social dimensions of divorce. From asset division to custody battles to post-divorce recovery, we explore who comes out ahead—or if anyone does at all.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

The myth of winning

- Societal norm of “winning”

Price of divorce

- We explore the emotional, professional, and financial price SHE pays in divorce.

- We look at the same aspects of divorce from HIS perspective.

Financial Fallout

- Why divorced women often face greater financial strain

- Alimony and child support: needed or created to favor women?

Cultural Narratives and Reality

- Are women really “winners” in divorce?

- Is there a clear winner?

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Kara Duffy: What Is A Coach And Why Do You Need One?

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, we dive into the most underrated professional world - the world of coaching with expert Kara Duffy, an entrepreneur, business coach & consultant who uses her Have It All Method™ to help business owners become Extraordinary CEOs and organizations to scale. She's also the creator & host of the Powerful Ladies Podcast and co-founder of shopolivet.com.

Whether you're going through divorce or considering launching a new business or trying to find your happily ever after, this conversation will help you understand what a coach does, how they differ from therapists, and what to expect if you decide to hire one.

Key Takeaways:

What is a coach?
We define what a coach is and their role in helping clients to achieve goals.
We also discuss the benefits of hiring a coach.
Coach vs. Therapist
We point out the key differences between a coach and a therapist: future vs past, what vs why, action vs feeling.
Design the life you want, rather than life being designed for you
Kara shares expert tips on how to take control of your life and build the life you want.
We also go over how to overcome fear or feeling of being lost and finding your way forward.
Having a coach is having a gift of foresight.
Real-life examples
Kara shares some real-life examples of success and stories from her experience when working with different clients.
How to make coaching work for you
Tips on being “coachable”
Common pitfalls and how to avoid them
When to reach out to the coach

“Once you know what you want, it's so easy to get you there.” - Kara Duffy

Connect with Kara Duffy:

Website: https://karaduffy.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karawduffy/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kara_duffy/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

Congratulations or I'm Sorry

Sun, 15 Jun 2025 10:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Ksenia Muench discussed:

Divorce is a spectrum of emotions
How the weight of roles shapes divorce
Life after separation
Still made for connection

Key Takeaways:

Divorce is an emotionally multifaceted journey, ranging from grief to relief, sadness to celebration, with no single, universal experience.
Gender roles and expectations shape both the causes and consequences of divorce, with women often initiating separation due to emotional burnout, while men statistically report higher happiness within marriage.
Post-divorce life requires deep emotional and logistical adjustments, especially when parenting, as both partners navigate shifting responsibilities and identities.
Strong support systems and societal understanding are essential, as humans remain wired for connection—even when partnerships change form.

“We are built to be with a partner, to build a family. Because, let's be honest, regardless whether you're on congratulations or I'm sorry when we're saying ‘I do’, we're not thinking, 'Oh, but I don't in a month.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/