Jonni and Maria Go There!

Merry, Messy, and Mildly Inappropriate

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria discuss all things holiday - from dealing with the recession to how to painlessly alter your shopping habits to be a force for good, to the traditions we hold dear from childhood, and those we create - or lack thereof - within our own families. And while we're not giving away cars Oprah-style, we share some of our favorite things that make great last-minute gifts. We wrap with a conversation on healthy mindsets for the season.

Plus, Japan adventures, Spartacus, board games, 5Ks over 50, job-hugging, 2026 sort-of-goals, and more tomfoolery.

REFERENCES MENTIONED:

Job Hugging

Good Hang with Amy Poehler podcast with Ina Garten

Websites:

Board Games:

Favorite Things/Gifts:

Aura Frames

Conversation Cue Cards by Jen Mueller

RIO (Reach International Outfitters)

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Finding Joy in Crazy Times

Sat, 08 Mar 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Today Jonni and Maria talk about joy: All the ways we find it, it finds us, and how we need it in tough times. From game show addictions to leafing through old photo albums and building Chambers of Connection, we discuss the important role community, camaraderie, and laughter play in our lives and how you can find ways to stay involved while still embracing joy right now. And we share a few must-watch shows and must-listen podcasts to add some levity to your life.

Plus, improv, illness, a Night at the Museum, white noise, disposable cameras, Harry Potter, and more tomfoolery.

REFERENCES MENTIONED:

Love is Blind

Project Runway

Night at the Museum

Chamber of Connection

California Academy of Sciences Penguins and Pajamas Program

Shutterfly

Artkive

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Restart, Recharge, Reconnect

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria discuss how we can balance what's happening around us and why building community will be the key to making it through, finding joy, and activating change. We discuss why we're all grieving something. We share about optimism, activism, the cycle of progress and retreat, and how we can find sanity and sanctuary while still staying involved. Listen in to think and laugh about how we're all dealing with change in work and in our personal lives and how we can find joy, link arms, and move forward.

We share resources and experts that will help you find joy and take action.

Plus, chicken coops, improv shows, love and loss, social media sanity, kids, and more tomfoolery.

References Mentioned:

Jonni's show Big Tech at Jet City Improv (February 2025)

Courage to Advance: Breaking the ‘Things Will Get Better’ Cycle with Aaron Delgaty, PhD

The Ezra Klein Show

Heather Cox Richardson

Ruth Bader Ginsburg on The Pendulum as the symbol of the United States

ResistBot app

1440

Tangle

All There Is podcast with Andersen Cooper, exploring grief

The Empathy Edge: Stephanie Sarazin: What Is Ambiguous Grief and How To Show Up

Life is Beautiful

The Parrot Tico Tango

Not mentioned but a great perspective!

Elisa Camahort Page: Where Do We Go From Here? (about social media usage)

Electrified Election. LFG!

Sat, 31 Aug 2024 10:00:00 GMT

In a unique time travel episode (we recorded the first half weeks before the second due to tech issues), Jonni and Maria discuss why your vote in the 2024 election matters more than ever to the future of our country and break down exactly what we like about Harris/Walz - and what is so dangerous about the Trump/Vance agenda. We share why every American needs to be paying attention to politics right now to preserve our democracy and rights. And what the Biden administration has actually done for this country and what we are most excited about for a more equitable and joyful future. We are all about providing the facts, with color commentary of our own as progressive women, moms, business owners…and hopeful Americans.

We share info you may not know and would love to hear your own viewpoints and perspectives.

Plus, Maria's big move to the Burbs, horse neighbors, back to school, and book launch, Jonni's two graduation marathon, teen world travels, empty nest adjustments and more tomfoolery

References Mentioned:

Maria's new book The Empathy Dilemma: How Successful Leaders Balance Performance, People, and Personal Boundaries. Grab your copy!

September 11, 2024, Seattle The Empathy Dilemma fun book launch, panel, and workshop with Jonni and Maria! RSVP now - space is limited.

Elisa Camahort Page, OpEd podcast and the book she co-authored with Carolyn Gerin and Jamia Wilson, Roadmap for Revolutionaries,

What the Biden Administration has done for this country and why it matters:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2024/07/23/biden-sacrifice-democrats-win/Voter

White Women for Harris Zoom call: Organized by Shannon Watts of Moms Demand Action

https://www.wjbf.com/news/white-women-for-harris-meeting-raised-millions-broke-zoom/

More on the GOP Project 2025 Agenda: https://act.moveon.org/go/194441?t=9&akid=398263%2E38337520%2EbKqQDo

Turnout information: https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2023/07/12/voter-turnout-2018-2022/

Do something! Find ways to volunteer that work for you: https://votesaveamerica.com/

Understanding and fighting voter suppression: https://www.fairfight.com/

Swing States: https://usafacts.org/articles/what-are-the-current-swing-states-and-how-have-they-changed-over-time/

Sharon McMahon, America’s Government Tacher: https://www.instagram.com/sharonsaysso/

Harris’ High Level Economic Views: https://apnews.com/article/harris-economy-taxes-homes-food-prices-insurance-e1ad3f26f2ce8e6cb365a4ffe2ca3e6b

Trump VP choice JD Vance's former criticism of Trump: https://www.pbs.org/newshour/politics/how-trumps-potential-running-mates-harshly-criticized-him-in-the-past

Spilling the Tea on Embarrassment vs. Shame

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the differences between embarrassment and shame and spill the tea on some of our award-worthy embarrassing moments. Whether from middle school plays to brazen attempts to bond with the cool kids. Whether it’s attending the wrong party for almost 30 minutes (and drinking their wine) or the everyday embarrassments we all feel. Jonni and Maria share the laughs, physiological reactions and emotional scars that stay with us, how to take away the power of embarrassment, how sometimes embarrassment can lead to shame when handled badly - and explore the moments that remain with us. We break down an "official" difference between embarrassment and shame, and of course, cite Brene Brown.

Plus, kid updates, slumber parties, Alcatraz visits, what the hell is "snappy casual?, Maria's new book coming in September,, and more tomfoolery.

REFERENCES MENTIONED:

NIH National Library of Medicine, "The Neural Signatures of Shame, Embarrassment, and Guilt: A Voxel-Based Meta-Analysis on Functional Neuroimaging Studies"

Adding Shame, Guilt, Humiliation, Embarrassment, Empathy, and Self-Compassion to the Social Emotional Learning Vocabulary

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What Did You Say? Slang, Work Speak, and Why Evolving Language Matters

Fri, 01 Dec 2023 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the evolution of language and how the heck we can understand each other better..From the ways we now refer to different groups to be more inclusive and respectful, and how this is constantly evolving - and should be, as we learn more and strive to be better to each other. We talk about generational slang, from the 50's to the 80's to Gen Z, "professional" talk versus casual talk, how we learned to write formal letters and emails, which phrases are keepers no matter what generation, and how we feel about swearing. We discuss how language can divide us but also connect us. And of course, we share our own adventures trying to understand what language our kids are speaking.

We'd love to hear what you think!

Plus, Halloween debrief, our take on when Christmas decorations can go up, helping our kids become more self-aware, plus more tomfoolery.

REFERENCES MENTIONED:

The Inclusive Language Field Guide by Dr. Suzanne Werheim

Language at work is becoming more casual- thanks to Gen Z - CNBC

Gen Z nurse video meme (watch all of Nurse John here, a nurse using humor to highlight serious challenges)

2023 Teen Slang includes current teen phrases

Teen Talk and Linguistic Evolution - Psychology Today

Can you talk the latest talk? How slang divides and connects generations

At what age should you stop using contemporary slang?

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My Kids Don’t Cherish My Childhood Movie Faves!

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the movies and TV shows that shaped us. The ones we recall fondly, that are forever linked with important milestones, and which ones we feel like our kids MUST know in order to get certain jokes, references, or truisms in our current culture.

We discuss what we loved and why, what we have tried to share with our kids (to varying degrees of success), and how some of our beloved favorites just don't stand up in this day and age - and how sad that is for our soul. We also reflect on how our parents must have felt with us, when it comes to their favorite classic movies, music and pop culture. Maybe it’s just the way of nostalgia, that we always believe “our stuff” is/was the best.

We'd love to hear your picks as well!

Plus, back to school, fall chaos, recent wins, the fears we should say YES to, Halloween antics and costume roulette, our recent IRL Seattle visit, how to properly tip (and what we teach our kids about it), plus more tomfoolery.

REFERENCES MENTIONED:

Maria's TEDx Talk: How to "Trojan Horse" Leaders into Being an Empathetic Leaders

On being with Krista Tippett podcast: Dacher Keltner - The Thrilling New Science of Awe

Grease

The Goonies

Ferris Bueller's Day off

Raiders of the Lost Ark

The Philadelphia Story

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Motherhood Mayhem

Thu, 20 Jul 2023 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the mayhem that is motherhood, especially for those who work outside the home, but for all of us dealing with raising humans. We share the ridiculous myths we all tell ourselves about motherhood should be, why every developmental stage is like getting used to a new kid all over again, why it's okay to admit your kid is being a jerk sometimes, and how to start the process of distancing yourself and your identity from your kids to let them fly. Jonni shares from her perspective with soon to be high school and college grads on the cusp of independence and Maria from the trenches of 9 year old sassiness and defiance. We chat about positive and conscious parenting techniques - and why we feel like we're doing it wrong, and the long game: What type of humans do we hope our kids turn out to be and what kind of relationship do we hope we have with them.

Plus, summer chaos, Barnes & Noble, board games, kids playing with knives (don't miss Jonni's story that you won't be able to get out of your head!) and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Sara Dean's Shameless Mom Academy Podcast (PS, Here's Maria's interview from a few years ago!)

Dr Shefali, Conscious Parenting expert

Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting

Unscrew You with Rachel Duffy (podcast Maria mentioned but forgot to name)

Better Help to find the right therapist for you

Labor of Love- NPRs Throughline Podcast

Repair of a Broken Relationship (Parents and Adult Children)- Mel Robbins Podcast

If you are in mental crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please call 988 to get the immediate help you need - you are not alone. (US only)

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The Death of the Third Place?

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the demise of malls and other "Third Places" in American culture. The term Third Place was coined in 1989 by sociologist Ray Oldenburg " describing a place beyond home and work where people could gather, relax and talk." Today,we share what's going on,, how such places shaped our culture and childhoods, where people go to connect outside of home and work, and what we think of the new Third Place frontier: Online. We share our memories (Barnes and Noble afternoons, teen girl mall-meetups), laughs, and surprising trends on how places such as malls, coffee shops and parks shape our social connections in a post-Pandemic world.

Plus, the big Seattle visit and live podcast recording, Jonni's improv workshops, stretching ourselves, British accents, Maria's theater audition, summer plans, and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Northeastern University

Getting Curious Podcast with Jonathan Van Ness: Where Did All the Malls Go with Alexandra Lange

Reimagining The Third Place: How Starbucks is Evolving its Store Experience

Malls.com: The Number of Malls in the US will Decline to 200 in 10-15 years:

The Atlantic: Do Yourself a Favor and Go Find Yourself a Third Place

Yahoo! Finance: What is a Third Place, and Why Have They Practically Disappeared?

San Diego Magazine: The Return of Malls Heralds Better Third Places for Teens

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The Dark Side of Allyship: Self-Doubt, Gaslighting, & Picking Your Battles

Thu, 08 Jun 2023 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria recorded live at the Women in Tech Regatta in Seattle on April 27, 2023.

Tech can be a tough industry to navigate when you want to be your true self, focus on relationships and not ruthless competition, and truly connect to do great work. But how can we embrace vulnerability to build stronger connections? Where can our self-doubt, false narratives, and internal gaslighting lead us astray from authenticity and doing work that matters? How can we build trust and relationships first to be the best allies we can be, based not on what we THINK we should do, but what others TELL US they need and want?

This episode is not just for women in tech but women in life!

Our goal was to share our stories and strategies from many decades being women in tech, understand how to be true allies based on empathy, and as always, help you embrace your true self and inner voice as your ultimate superpowers

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

All Are Welcome: How to Build a Real Workplace CUlture of Inclusion That Delivers Results by Cythia Owyoung

Better Allies: Everyday Actions to Create Inclusive, Engaging Workplaces by Karen Catlin

Soul Focused Group

WIT Regatta

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The Power and Pain of Vulnerability

Thu, 13 Apr 2023 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about the upsides and downsides of vulnerability and how it shows up in our real lives beyond a Brene Brown TED talk. We share our stories of vulnerability leading to good - and leading to pain. And discuss how we feel about vulnerability with different people in our lives, from co-workers to kids to souses. This episode will make you think and inspire you to embrace vulnerability as your superpower.

Plus, Jonni's Japan highlights, the shame of car accidents, parenting setbacks, OUR LIVE EVENT in Seattle this April at the WIT Regatta!, and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

WIT Regatta, Seattle, April 26 to May 3, 2023. Use this link to register for 20% off!

Bréne Brown: The Power of Vulnerability on Audible

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On Aging: Gift or Death Sentence?

Thu, 23 Feb 2023 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about the good, bad, and weirdness of aging. Everything from owning our confidence and ability to not give a flying fig about trivial things, to creaky joints, supplements, and watching our parents age and friends grow ill or pass away. We dish on whether our culture is really geared to the young in today's world, and how age and experience are being modeled and celebrated by many famous people.

Plus, Maria's new puppy antics, why we love so-called "high-risk"dog breeds, Jonni's harrowing last-minute stress and shame leading up to her Japan trip (if you're traveling out of the country soon, don't miss these important tips!) and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Brene Brown podcast on shame

Travel.gov

Jamie Lee Curtis on aging

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Our Love and Hate Relationship with "Wellness"

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about our take on the wellness industry, and our own definitions, dilemmas, and habits.We question the blurring lines between beauty, health and diet culture. We dish on benefits, placebos, body positivity, how our brains work and if wellness industry players have good intentions or if some are grifters. We share many resources and also explore how privilege and white supremacy play into the wellness industry (trust us, there's a thread!) and howGen Z'ers view wellness and body image these days.

And please fact-check us if we got anything wrong! We are nothing if not humble and eager to learn.

Plus, mall shopping, Harry Potter world,adult purchases that bring us embarrassing joy (new windows and couches!), and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The New York Times,"Smash the Wellness Industry"

Quartz: "Women are flocking to wellness because modern medicine still doesn’t take them seriously"

Victoria's Secret by Jax

The Empathy Edge podcast, Saira Rao: Why White Women Need to Talk About Our Racism

White Women: Everything You Already Know ABout Your Own Racism and How to Do Better by Saira Rao and Regina Jackson

Byrdie, "White Washing Problem"

Naaya Wellness: Wellness with a social justice lens.

Evergreen Center for Integrative Medicine (Seattle)

Offline with Jon Favreau, Jan 15, 2023, Two Writers Wonder If They'll Be Replaced by AI

Jonathan Van Ness - Over the Top and his follow up book Love That Story

Offline with Jon Favreau- the quote: “I don’t really know what my opinion is” struck a nerve

NPRs It’s Been a Minute- Curls and courage with Michaela Angela Davis and Rep. Cori Bush

Washington Post: "Spoon Theory: What It Is and How I Use It to Manage Chronic Illness"

Podcast Jonni loves: Death, Sex and Money

WIT Regatta Seattle - where we might be recording our podcast from in late April 2023!

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Reinvention, Renewal, and Why We Hate New Year's Resolutions

Thu, 12 Jan 2023 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about New Year's goal-setting and offer a new way to look at reinvention, renewal, and reflection instead so we can stop trying to fix ourselves and start leaning into more fulfilling action. Maria reveals her brand reinvention coming in January, and Jonni shares some great ways she has helped her kids - and her company - set goals. We talk about reflecting and focusing on values first to guide your New Year's intentions and aspirations (NOT resolutions!)

Pus, new puppy drama, why we fear cats, winter weather trauma, holiday gift fails and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Dr. Adam Drosay's Superpsyched podcast episode with AJ Jacobs

Debbie Page, women's business coach

Clarity International: https://www.getclarity.com/

BE Culture: https://www.betheculture.com/

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Sister Session: Midterms, Mama Life and Holiday Magic Making

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about a "mélange of topics" today that may be top of mind for many of you, dear listeners. We chat about U.S. midterm anxieties and results, how political awareness is good but we think it is making us less happy. We also muse on societal norms related to proper monikers, holidays and commercialism.

Plus, Gen Z and the evolution of language and text/email etiquette (PS, "totes" is not cool anymore but we're still using it, “fit” does not describe your workout cred and more.), Maria gets dumped by Meta on her birthday, Jonni's planned Palm Springs getaway and new favorite airport, pseudo aunts and uncles, do your kids call adults Mr. and Mrs, and more tomfoolery.

This pod will give you “eavesdropping at your coffee shop” vibes and we think you'll love it. Consider yourself warned.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Empathy Edge Podcast, Dr. Suzanne Wertheim, Why Inclusive Language Matters (https://theempathyedge.com/dr-suzanne-wertheim-why-inclusive-language-matters/)

Please donate in Maria's honor and make up for her interrupted birthday fundraiser! Schurig Center for Brain Injury Recovery (https://schurigcenter.org/)

Desi Lydic, The Daily Show on Instagram: What Red Wave? (https://www.instagram.com/p/CkzAUjpLlXa/)

The Brainy Business podcast (https://thebrainybusiness.com/podcast/) about behavioral economics and how our brains make decisions. Hosted by Melina Palmer.

Pod Save America https://crooked.com/podcast-series/pod-save-america/ - A Progressive Podcast for those who are not ready to give up

What a Day https://crooked.com/podcast-series/what-a-day/ - 20 minute podcast breaking down the day’s biggest news stories

The Daily https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-daily/id1200361736 - NY Times short podcast written and reported by New York Times journalists about world news

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The Wacky World of Adult Friendships

Fri, 21 Oct 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about all things friendship - especially as women: How we make friends, how we value friendships, friendship break-ups, being friends with our kids and siblings, and how we balance friendships in our busy lives. We talk about the epidemic of loneliness, technology's role in modern friendship, and cite experts who can explain the dynamics of friendship - and relationships in general and how they ebb and flow. And the story of our crazy friendship and why it's so strong even though we've only met in person twice!

Plus, green product follow up, Maria's 50th birthday, Jonni's updates on her son's Japan adventures, and more tomfoolery….

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Epidemic of loneliness: https://www.publichealth.columbia.edu/public-health-now/news/researchers-call-national-public-health-effort-prevent-loneliness

Shasta Nelson and her books:

Friendships Don’t Just Happen

Frientimacy

The Business of Friendship

Shasta's TEDx talk https://www.ted.com/talks/shasta_nelson_frientimacy_the_3_requirements_of_all_healthy_friendships?language=en

She shares startling research about loneliness—it's as damaging to our health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, and twice as harmful to our bodies as obesity!

Shasta's Circles of Connectedness: https://www.girlfriendcircles.com/blog/tag/5+Circles+of+Connectedness

Three elements to maintain friendship:positivity, vulnerability, consistency https://www.girlfriendcircles.com/blog/index.php/2017/02/definition-of-healthy-friendship-look-like?format=amp

Esther Perel, Relationship Expert: ttps://www.estherperel.com/

Esther Perel, Ten Percent podcast interview, How to Keep Friendships From Imploding: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/esther-perel-464

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There’s No Planet B: Climate Anxiety and Products and Policies to Give Us Hope

Thu, 15 Sep 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria chat about the ways we try to be conscious consumers and kinder to the environment. We share our favorite green products and habits (you’ll love!) and discuss recent historic U.S. and state climate change legislation as winning steps in the right direction. We also talk about climate anxiety (it's real, ya'll) and the surprising true story behind the 1970's "Crying Indian" public service ad campaign that made us all feel guilty for littering. Which we should feel guilty, but when you hear who funded this campaign and why, you’ll get fired up, we're sure. We also share our own small behavior changes that can empower you and your family to make a difference, too.

Plus, back-to-school drama, retail holiday pressure, modern education, letting people into your house when you're not there, remote technology, and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Stasher: Reusable silicone storage/snack bags. Amazing.

How I Built This podcast with Guy Raz: Interview with Stasher founder Kat Nouri

Abeego: Reusable beeswax wrap to replace plastic wrap

Dropps: Laundry and household cleaners

Blueland: Household cleaner. The soap Jonni uses for all of the soap dispensers- glass bottles, tablet and water. All packaging is recycled and recyclable.

Reel Paper: Toilet paper and paper towels made from renewable bamboo and all packaging, including the box it ships in is recyclable.

U Konserve: Reusable food wraps, but they also have great reusable containers and other green products.

Luna Cup: Menstrual cups in place of tampons

Make Up Eraser To wash clothes

Ridwell: Recycling support at your door. Currently serving WA, OR, MN, TX, and CO, and launching in the SF Bay area soon. Check out more information here: Where Does Ridwell Operate?

Going Zero Waste blog

Death, Sex, and Money Podcast. How Much Climate Anxiety Helps?

Info on the Inflation Reduction Act (that has the most impactful climate protection legislation in the US to date)

Climate Anxiety Article: https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/is-climate-change-keeping-you-up-at-night-you-may-have-climate-anxiety-202206132761

Holding companies accountable for climate change: https://njsbf.org/2022/04/13/holding-corporations-accountable-for-climate-change/

Crying Indian ad paid for by bottling companies to push accountability to individuals:

https://www.chicagotribune.com/opinion/commentary/ct-perspec-indian-crying-environment-ads-pollution-1123-20171113-story.html

How to Save a Planet from Gimlet Media: Not Past it: The Crying Indian Ad: https://gimletmedia.com/shows/howtosaveaplanet/brhmlne/presenting-not-past-it-the-crying-indian

How to Save a Planet from Gimlet Media, Is my Lawn Bad for the Climate?:

https://gimletmedia.com/shows/howtosaveaplanet/2ohrl58/is-my-lawn-bad-for-the-climate

How to Save a Planet: Calls to Action and Resources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vS30vR8zChP03PfKowbeIKgikTtrNn0Wefs7sIjy-sVUAroXizvZ4nFdPS27FvNqGpr396YcYRrdr3J/pub

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What's in a Name?

Thu, 01 Sep 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Welcome back to Fall! Jonni and Maria candidly share the history of their unique names and how that helped shape their identity. We talk about how we named our kids, why pronouncing someone's name the right way is a sign of respect, and how names bear family and cultural history. You'll learn the secret behind Jonni's name, why Maria's unique maiden name was fist a curse and then a blessing, and how asking about the origin of a name with empathy and curiosity can lead to great connections and inclusivity.

Plus, our crazy summers, COVID aftermath,the myth of the "suffering creative", sinus infections Neti pots, and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Big Magic: Creative Living Without Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert

Harvard Business Review article: "Why Getting Someone's Name Right Matter"

Dyymond Whipper-Young, artist on Instagram @dyymondwy

Jonni and Maria Go There episode on creativity: Improv, Acting, and Creative Side Hustles

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Common Sense Gun Control - Without Taking Away Your Gun

Thu, 02 Jun 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria have a reasonable and nuanced chat about the recent mass shooting tragedies in the United States. We talk about why blanket stereotypes about gun owners, Democrats, and Republicans are not always true and don't serve us; Why the NRA is not the organization it once was, and why it makes no sense that they are not leading safety and advocacy efforts. We share examples of when America has enacted swift legislation and made huge impacts before, and how we avoid sinking into a false narrative that our efforts don't matter - or won't matter for future generations.

Plus, our productivity-obsessed culture, why art is self care, and how to take care of yourself in tough, stressful times.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

What Research Shows on the Effectiveness of Gun Control Laws, The Washington Post

Giffords: Committing to end gun violence. It is made up of 3 distinct entities working in concert to end gun violence in America:

Giffords, which motivated voters and educates lawmakers
Giffords Law Center, whose experts help draft, implement, and defend the laws, policies, and programs proven to make our country safer
Giffords PAC, which supports candidates and elected officials who have the courage to stand up for lifesaving gun laws

Everytown for Gun Safety: "We are a movement of more than 8 million mayors, teachers, survivors, gun owners, students, and everyday Americans." They focus on grassroots efforts, gun safety awareness, legislative reform, and survivor support.

We Can Do Hard Things: How We’ll Save Our Kids From the Gun Lobby’s Greed with Shannon Watts.

Examples of Legislation Changing After Just a Few Incidents:

Tragic death of one Hollywood starlet leads to tractor trailer industry changes

Tylenol tampering leads to 7 deaths- changes packaging at Federal level

One failed attempt to bomb a plane with an explosive changes TSA protocols for all US airports

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Not On Our Watch: The Upheaval of Roe vs. Wade

Thu, 12 May 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria dig into the leak of the U.S Supreme Court opinion that will overturn Roe vs. Wade and remove abortion protestions for women. We are speaking out against taking this very personal choice nad right away from women to have autonomy over their own bodies - and destinies. We talk about our own views on abortion, play out all the reasons women have abortions that many anit-abortion supporters don't even realize, the surprising implications that this move will have on all of us, and what you can do to take action and make your voice heard.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Complex views on abortion. Most struggle with nuances. https://time.com/6174825/americans-views-abortion/

One Missouri clinic saw donations soar after the leak: https://news.stlpublicradio.org/health-science-environment/2022-05-09/donations-to-missouri-abortion-rights-groups-surge-after-leaked-supreme-court-draft

“ In the week since someone leaked the draft opinion, the fund has received more $200,000, '' she said. That’s 20 times what it raised in all of May 2021.”

7 places to donate right now courtesy of Shondaland.

Donations surge after the leak:

https://www.npr.org/2022/05/06/1097210720/roe-v-wade-abortion-groups-donations-surge

What is a Trigger Law: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/04/us/abortion-trigger-laws.html

Which 26 states will immediately restrict abortion rights if Roe v Wade is overturned: https://fortune.com/2022/05/03/roe-v-wade-abortion-rights-overturned-states-affected/

Register to vote and find out about your state’s voting laws and/or restrictions: vote.gov

Understanding voting laws: https://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/research-reports/voting-laws-roundup-february-2022

What other rights might be at risk: https://www.reuters.com/world/us/gay-marriage-other-rights-risk-after-us-supreme-court-abortion-move-2022-05-04/

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What the Hell is the Patriarchy?

Thu, 07 Apr 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria tackle "The Patriarchy:" What it actually means, what it means to us and how it damages women AND men alike. And how we can want to "smash the patriarchy"and still love men at the same time! We share how we were raised, our early female role models, why we appreciate male allies, and why we were hesitant to claim the term "feminist" in the past. We discuss the emotional and opportunity costs of the patriarchy - and some ways we can start to change things for the better so everyone can thrive.

Plus, surprise boy mom visits, the book 1984, homework duties, financial literacy for kids and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Merriam Webster Definition: Patriarchy is a…Social organization marked by the supremacy of the father in the clan or family, the legal dependence of wives and children, and the reckoning of descent and inheritance in the male line broadly : control by men of a disproportionately large share of power.
"Patriarchy is a system of relationships, beliefs, and values embedded in political, social, and economic systems that structure gender inequality between men and women. Attributes seen as “feminine” or pertaining to women are undervalued, while attributes regarded as “masculine” or pertaining to men are privileged." This and more articles on the patriarchy: https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/social-sciences/patriarchy
Patriarchy Hurts Men and Women - How Can Therapy Help Us Get Rid of It? International Psychotherapy Association
Ruth Bader Ginsberg interview with Katie Couric
Even RBG had to prove she was overqualified

Bringing down the ERA Phyllis Schlafly
Mrs. America on Hulu
HBR article about why women don’t apply for roles

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/thats-feminist-with-a-cap_b_5240256
What's the Difference Between Miss, Mrs., Ms. from Bride magazine

American Business Women’s Association- ABWA

“The Man” by Taylor Swift (Lyrics)
"The Man" by Taylor Swift (Video)

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Santa, the Tooth Fairy and Talking Pets: Magic or Lying?

Thu, 24 Mar 2022 10:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk about the stories we tell ourselves - and our kids - and whether they are lies or magic making. Is it ever okay to lie to ourselves, our kids, or others? We candidly share how we've navigated the Santa, Easter Bunny, and Tooth Fairy myths - and balancing those magical childhood memories with teaching our kids about honesty.We share some doozies we told growing up (shoplifting anyone?) and the different types of lies humans tell - and where we think the line gets crossed. Please tune in for an honest conversation about…lying?!

Plus, collagen supplements, overcoming your fear of kale, talking to your pets, and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Is Believing InSanta Bad or Good for Kids? Dr.Jacqueline Wooley, Professor of Psychology at University of Texas

Why People Pretend to Talk to Their Pets

Elf on the Shelf

Peloton: Streamed and on-demand fitness and health.

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Mental Health IS Health

Thu, 10 Mar 2022 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria talk, with humor and heart, about mental health - the power of sharing and creating safety for yourself and others. With everything going on in the world today, many of us (especially kids and young adults) are not "fine." We talk about the COVID impact, the distinction between self care, self maintenance,and self compassion and what we're doing to maintain our own sanity: Boundaries, therapy, Peloton, and great apps. We've also shared some stats, personal stories and resources. Please tune in for a conversation we all need right now.

Plus, an intro to Rowing, stand-in mama bears, skateboarding and more tomfoolery.

Please remember: These are our own personal opinions and experiences. We are not mental health professionals but are sharing resources and our own experiences. If you or anyone you know is in crisis, please reach out to

National suicide prevention hotline:

800-273-8255 (TALK)

SAMHSA: Substance abuse and mental health services administration https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

We didn't get a chance to talk about this on this week's episode, but if you'd like to do something for the people of Ukraine, here are two places to donate:

GoFundMe Fundraiser: Ukraine Humanitarian Fund: Organized by GoFundMe and disperses to verified aid organizations.
International Rescue Committee

Homecoming coaching course with Jamie Greenwood

Safe Sport

GetClarity.com

NPR: Kids Are Back in School - and Struggling with Mental Health Issues

Best Mental Apps for 2022, according to VeryWellMind.com, including best apps for mediation, therapy, ADHD, depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD and more.

BetterHealth: App for all types of therapy

Calm: App for meditation, sleep, stress relief, retraining your brain, and much more.

Peloton: Streamed and on-demand fitness and health.

Talkspace: App for therapy. Maria accidentally referred to this as Headspace, which is a meditation app.

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Improv, Acting, and Creative Side Hustles

Thu, 24 Feb 2022 11:00:00 GMT

In this episode, Jonni and Maria talk about the magic of improv and acting and how creative outlets can enrich your life and work. We share how we both got into them, what we get out of performing, and some horrific audition stories. What have these passons taught us about public speaking, vulnerability, and rejection, and how do we apply it to our everyday lives? How can leaders and business teams benefit from improv training? Why are creative endeavors the best form of self-care, no matter how busy you might be? Creative outlets help you flex your innovation and resilience muscles and Lord knows we needed those these past two years! Plus, the perfect power nap, Valentine’s Day traditions (and pitfalls to avoid) and more tomfoolery.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Kathy Klotz-Guest, speaker, author and founder of Keeping it Human

Her book: Stop Boring Me! How to Create Kick-Ass Marketing Content, Products and Ideas Through the Power of Improv. Named a must-read book for 2017 by Inc.com

Gary Ware, TEDx Speaker/ Facilitator/ Coaching, Founder of Breakthrough Play. He is in the San Diego area, but does a ton of freelance work, can do Zoom/in person

BATS Improv (SF Bay Area)

Unexpected Productions (Seattle)

Jet City Improv (Seattle)

Comedy Sportz Worldwide

Harvard Business Review article, “Innovation Takes Practice”

The Empathy Edge podcast Let’s Play More at Work! with Jyoti Patel and Emily Griffin (Episode aired in December 2021)

Hacks starring jean Smart

The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel starring Rachel Brosnahan

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HOW TO CHANGE THE WORLD (WHEN YOU’RE NOT OPRAH)

Thu, 10 Feb 2022 11:00:00 GMT

Jonni and Maria discuss everyday activism and how to use your voice and work to make the world a better place. We share our journey and offer up small actions that make a big difference - even if you feel like the world’s problems are too overwhelming. We got a little vulnerable in our own wins and fails and why we really believe the world needs us all to take brave little steps toward equity and justice. Plus, our picks for TV shows to watch when looking for a mental break, SO MANY great book and podcast recommendations, and fun facts about Encanto.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Podcasts and Blogs:

The Dia Bondi Show, Ep25: Taboos, Truths, and Tantrums: Speaking Courageously with Rene Huey-Lipton

The Empathy Edge with guest Terri Givens: Radical Empathy to Bridge Racial Divides

Code Switch by NPR- Episode 321. They came, they saw, they reckoned?

The Empathy Edge with guest Heather Hiscox: The Surprising Empathy Gap in Social Impact that Hinders Change

Red Slice blog: 5 Ways Your Business Can Make the World a Better Place

Books, Articles, and Videos:

The Sum of Us: What Racism Costs Everyone and How We CAn Prosper Together by Heather McGhee

The Complete Maus by Art Spiegelman

Radical Empathy: Finding a Path to Bridging Racial Divides by Terri Givens

Roadmap for Revolutionaries: Resistance, Activism, and Advocacy for All by Elisa Camahort Page, Carolyn Guerin, and Jamis Wilson

Waking up White by Debby Irving

Uncomfortable Conversations with Emmanuel Acho

The New York Times: Support for Black Lives Matter Surged Last Year. Did It Last?

Companies:

Be Culture (James and Kristen Whitfield) www.betheculture.com

TV and Movies:

Ghosts (BBC version)

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Mean Girls: The Reality, Legacy, and Myth

Thu, 27 Jan 2022 11:00:00 GMT

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Queen Bees and Wannabes: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boys, and the New Reality of Girl World by Rosalind Wiseman

Masterminds and Wingmen: Helping Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker Room Tests, Girlfriends and the New Rules of Boy World by Rosalind Wiseman

The Guide: Managing Douchbags, Recruiting Wingmen, and Attracting Who You Want by Rosalind Wiseman

Power of the Pack: Women Who Support Women are More Successful

Mean Girls Turns 15: The Perpetuation of Mean Girl Culture

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Boy Mom Quirks and Sex Education

Thu, 13 Jan 2022 11:00:00 GMT

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

Birds and Bees and Kids: Amy Lang

It’s Not the Stork! A Book About Girls, Boys, Babies, Bodies, Families, and Friends by Robie H. Harris

The Shameless Mom Academy podcast with Sara Dean: Ep 271, How to Not Raise a Rapist

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Welcome to Jonni and Maria Go There!

Tue, 11 Jan 2022 21:22:04 GMT

Welcome to Jonni and Maria Go There! A show about opinions….yours and ours. Your voice matters so USE it.

Who are we?

We’re Jonni Ressler and Maria Ross. We’re two feisty redheads with fierce hearts and fiercer opinions.

We’re both business owners, moms, part-time actresses, leaders and spouses - and eager to use our work to make the world a better place. We aim high, make mistakes, get angry, laugh at ourselves and love to cry happy tears. This podcast is for big-dreaming, progressive women with goals, whether those are to advance to CEO, make a change in your community, or just be the best version of yourself you can be. Together, we’ll crack open those conversations that you really want to have about what’s going on in business, politics, current events, motherhood, culture...nothing is off limits! - and show you that your voice matters

Think of this podcast as being a part of the best coffee date you can imagine! We hope that each episode gives you a laugh, a cry, an insight or a motivating nugget - and helps you feel less alone. When women speak out, we can change the world.

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