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]]></description></item><item><title>1.3: Masculine Versus Feminine Integrity, Finding The Balance with Arielle Browne</title><enclosure url="https://feeds.podetize.com/ep/do2RvmMv1/media/Da1Oee8r1.mp3" length="106382236" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure><guid>do2RvmMv1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate><itunes:duration>3324</itunes:duration><link>http://tufflove.live/</link><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><description><![CDATA[<p>Within our bodies are energies called the masculine and the feminine. There are times during the day when a man’s masculine shifts to its feminine, and he is not even aware of it. This happens to women as well but in a different way because where men lean more on their logic, women hold to their emotions so they are aware of these shifting energies. When these energies find balance, the integrity that results will lead to a healthy relationship with the men or women in our lives. But is there a difference between the two? Is masculine versus feminine integrity a relationship issue that needs to be addressed? Learn how you can find the connection in this paradoxical situation where both sides can be right.</p>
]]></description></item><item><title>1.2: The Sweet Spot of Flirting, Attraction &amp; Vulnerability with Arielle Browne</title><enclosure url="https://feeds.podetize.com/ep/nEILeSDc4/media/v5ZE2YcZW.mp3" length="115227088" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure><guid>nEILeSDc4</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Feb 2018 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate><itunes:duration>3600</itunes:duration><link>http://tufflove.live/</link><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><description><![CDATA[<p>Silence can be sexy when used the right way at the right time. Whether it can lead to attraction or not is not the question, rather are you aware that you’ve triggered the sweet spot of the person across you. Flirting is more than the words or the touching. It is about understanding that person and using your energy to get in sync with each other, getting permission to experience desire and attraction in a way that isn’t overwhelming or out of bounds. The six conversations continues with flirting, attraction and vulnerability. Learn why being a man of mystery isn’t that effective anymore and why being true to yourself is a better way to flirt.</p>
]]></description></item><item><title>1.1: Boundaries, Consent &amp; Power Dynamics with Arielle Brown</title><enclosure url="https://feeds.podetize.com/ep/JHNZbAUAVI/media/Sv_77vtlM.mp3" length="86836792" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure><guid>JHNZbAUAVI</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2018 10:00:00 GMT</pubDate><itunes:duration>2713</itunes:duration><link>http://tufflove.live/</link><itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit><description><![CDATA[<p>Checking in if a woman is still a “yes” until she is a “no” is a complicated discussion in itself. Knowing and respecting boundaries puts value on a woman, making her feel that she is an amazing person. However, men have to be conscious that they have this level of impact in the lives and experiences of women that is unseen yet very powerful. Saying yes or no doesn’t mean anything unless you make it mean something. Tuff Love expands its reach with a new series called &#8220;Six Conversations Between&#8230;&#8221; Weekly, two people will be having unfiltered and raw conversations around topics that exist between all of us: Love, communication, sexuality, and more. For our first series of six, I am joined by Arielle Brown for &#8216;Six Conversations between a Woman and a Man&#8217;. We dive RIGHT into the deep end of the pool by discussing boundaries, consent and power dynamics. With the explosion of the &#8216;Weinstein Effect&#8217; and #MeToo, there was a lot to talk about. We engage in deep conversation about our own experiences, our own relationship to power and how we recommend you can engage with it.</p>
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