You Get What You GiveLife is full of unexpected twists and turns. There are high-spirited days and depressing moments. You will encounter blessings and roadblocks along the way. Wouldn’t it be great if you had someone with practical tips and advice to help you navigate life easier? That person could be Christina through her podcast, You Get What You Give.

 

Christina is your all-around guide in turning life into a purposeful journey. She dedicates herself to helping people find their vision and reach their goals. Start small and aim high, all while doing the things you enjoy and love. Join Christina in a deep dives into different aspects of life and how to approach each one in logical and profound ways.

 

Gather nuggets of wisdom within your experiences. Reflect on every good and bad moment you went through and see how they shaped your present self. By looking back to your past, understand how you ended up with your current beliefs, behaviors, and perspectives. Get to know yourself better with Christina’s guidance. Gain clarity on how to show up properly and take reasonable action in life.

 

Christina also shares her insights when it comes to relationships. As she opens up about dating, find out how to handle your own romantic connections. Make every date memorable and informative by listening to real-life experiences, however crazy or wild they may be. Every Tuesday, Christina sits down with Tim, a long-time friend since high school, to explore love and life. Whether you are single, in a long-term commitment, caught up in a complicated relationship, or just want to hang out casually, this show has it all.

 

This show reveals essential pieces of advice you need to approach dating in more strategic and meaningful ways. Find out how to navigate dating websites, read your partner’s body language, and address age or cultural gaps with a significant other. And if you want to get personal and talk about sex, orgasms, and adult toys, Christina ventures into mature discussions. She's here to unravel everyone’s deepest desires and pleasures.

 

Most importantly, Christina puts the spotlight on the person many forget to love: themselves. She points out the power of looking within and what it takes to achieve mindfulness. Address stress in all forms and get rid of self-doubt and awkwardness. Christina reveals the secrets to creating your own fulfilling journey. No one has to struggle to be happy or face overwhelm to achieve their dreams. Put an end to exhausting days, eliminate negative thoughts, and live life on your terms.

 

On this big roller coaster ride, it is uplifting to have someone to help you deal with the many ups and downs. Christina gives you a quick rundown of what you need to get through it all with a smile. On this podcast, she provides the right advice and tools to unleash your best self. Hear about every possible topic about self, relationships, and career with the goal of helping you live your life to the fullest. Build a genuinely rewarding life today and become an inspiration to others who wants to do the same. That’s the ongoing circle of giving and receiving.

 

Join Christina in You Get What You Give podcast. Listen now at gettingwhatyougive.com.



]]>en-ustrueChristinaChristinachristina@podetize.comepisodicCopyright 2020-2023 – Christina | You Get What You Give – All Rights ReservedDivorce And The Memories Of A Wedding AnniversaryQLJ1tejvcThu, 06 Jun 2024 07:00:00 GMT622https://gettingwhatyougive.com/divorce-and-the-memories-of-a-wedding-anniversarytrueChristina considers her 11th wedding anniversary as a mark of her winning moment. In her third year of independence, Christina takes us in on a journey of how she managed to get through her day. She walks us through what her morning looked like and how she spent her time enjoying the sunrise, the quiet, and the breeze. Christina recalls how she took her heartbreak and crawled up from the depths of hell to figure things out. Listen in and join us in a celebration of her self-awareness, independence, and self-love.

]]>2How To Fulfill Your Expectations Part 1ljErG5w87Thu, 30 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1528https://gettingwhatyougive.com/how-to-fulfill-your-expectations-part-1trueAn expectation is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case in the future. In this episode, Christina explains why the general problem with today’s society is lazy expectations. You have to be intentional at fulfilling it. So if you’re looking for a fulfilling relationship, have a conversation with your partner about your goals. If the other person does not take the opportunity to fulfill your expectation, the relationship will go nowhere, and you’re wasting your time. Don’t miss out on this episode!


]]>15On Dating And Relationships: Confessions Of A Single MomNJhadMHyNTue, 28 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1269https://gettingwhatyougive.com/on-dating-and-relationships-confessions-of-a-single-momtrueJuggling dating while also taking care of raising children can be overwhelming. In this episode, Christina opens up about what dating, or lack of it, has been like for her after divorce and while doing her best as a single parent. She also talks about what prompted this topic—a recent crush she met on one of her son’s games. Listen in as Christina talks about her struggle with online dating, and why she’s looking to give away some control in her next relationship.

]]>2The Rules Of Casual Dating: What You Need To Know To Keep It Safe And EnjoyableMgkJxHymAThu, 23 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1852https://gettingwhatyougive.com/the-rules-of-casual-dating-what-you-need-to-know-to-keep-it-safe-and-enjoyabletrueCasual dating is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex without demanding the additional commitments of a more formal relationship. In this episode, Christina shares about the casual dating experience she’s currently onto and the rules you need to know about. First rule: if you don't want anything serious, the person you’re dating must know that from the beginning. Do you want to learn more about the rules of casual dating? Then this episode’s for you. Tune in!

]]>17Saying No More To Having Babies45A5PI_4uTue, 21 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1513https://gettingwhatyougive.com/saying-no-more-to-having-babiestrueMaking the decision to start a family can be a complicated, yet exciting, process. But choosing to stop having babies can be, too. With various factors surrounding this choice, there is never a one-size-fits-all resolution. Today, Christina shares her reasons for saying no more to having babies. A single mother of three, she retells the things she had to go through that made her arrive at this life decision. 

]]>2Feeling Defeated And Getting Out Of It: Dealing With ExhaustionOqtVuyKMeThu, 16 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1283https://gettingwhatyougive.com/feeling-defeated-and-getting-out-of-it-dealing-with-exhaustiontruePhysical, mental, and emotional stress and exhaustion can take a toll. You need to remember to take care of yourself when you feel down. In this episode, Christina shares her past week’s experience battling exhaustion. We hear about her struggles with other people and what she did to recharge and reenergize herself. Tune in for more of Christina and her experiences in this special episode.

]]>12Tuesdays With Tim | Living With Intention And Asking Out The Baseball Coach6ST-LIe7oTue, 14 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1611https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-living-with-intention-and-asking-out-the-baseball-coachtrueIt's time for more Tuesdays with Tim! This time, Tim and Christina talk about living with intention and facing your fear of attachment. Tim talks to Christina about her talking to the local baseball coach. Tim shares insights on why he thinks Christina isn't approaching the man, and encourages her to give it a try. After all, what's the worst that could happen? Tune in for more great talk from Tim and Christina and share in their unique friendship and outlook on relationships.

]]>2Talking Toys, Orgasms And Relationships With Jamie And BrittneydtrlHP229jThu, 09 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1710https://gettingwhatyougive.com/talking-toys-orgasms-and-relationships-with-jamie-and-brittneytrueSituationships can put a damper on a person’s sex life. While maintaining a healthy sexual relationship can be difficult for couples in such circumstances, there are alternatives that can actually help. In this episode, Christina sits down with her friends Jamie and Brittney to talk about sex toys and orgasms. They share their experiences with getting these exciting toys and why men should not be shy of using these. Learn, laugh, and love with these ladies as they discuss relationships for thirty-somethings today.

]]>13Tuesdays With Tim | A Game Of Would You Rather -etejdOMnDTue, 07 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT682https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-a-game-of-would-you-rathertrueIn today's episode of You Get What You Give, it's Tuesdays With Tim! Join Christina and Tim as they play a game of “Would You Rather.” Listen in as they ask important questions like would you rather have lobster claws or hedge clippers for hands? Would you rather have Velcro hands or Velcro feet? Would you rather be germaphobic with OCD or have multiple fun personalities? Find out their crazy answers and more in today's episode! 

]]>2 Judgemental Moms And Parenting Styles5fcOe0n2iThu, 02 May 2024 07:00:00 GMT1431https://gettingwhatyougive.com/judgemental-moms-and-parenting-styles/trueParenting is tough enough, but with all the judgemental moms everywhere, it's even tougher than we thought it would be. We don't realize that each of us has a different parenting style that fits our child's needs. It is absolutely no fun to deal with. In this episode, Christina talks about the six types of judgemental moms. We all judge, but some of them judge out loud, and it gets frustrating. We have to stop competing but instead start to support each other because being a mom is the hardest job in the world. If our children are happy and alive, that's what matters. Gain perspective and remember that we have our own decisions, which doesn't make us bad parents.

]]>10Tuesdays With Tim | Relationship Red Flags And Deal BreakersT4gdj5lvBTue, 30 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT1161https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-relationship-red-flags-and-deal-breakerstrueWhat are the things you look for in an ideal partner? What are your deal breakers? Will you let a single pet peeve outweigh their entire personality? It’s true that getting into a serious relationship is no joke, but knowing who to get into a relationship with is even harder. Christina and Tim sit together for another episode to discuss how setting up boundaries and deal-breakers are essential in establishing a healthy relationship. Listen in as they share their personal deal breakers, so you can set and be clear with yours.

]]>2Experiences On Tinder: Understanding A Man's Perspective4xyohayqpThu, 25 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT742https://gettingwhatyougive.com/experiences-on-tinder-understanding-a-mans-perspectivetrueIf you're dating on Tinder, then you can relate to these horrible experiences Christina went through. In this episode, Christina shares with Tim how men can be confusing with their mixed signals. Why do they say they're interested then ignore you afterward? Join in the conversation and dive deep into a man's perspective as Tim shares some dating advice and explains some characteristics of men that women find very attractive and send them over the moon. You’d want to tune in to this episode before you make that swipe!

]]>8Tuesday with Tim | Meeting Expectations: Am I Setting The Bar Too High?qrmZNsWIQTue, 23 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT2106https://gettingwhatyougive.com/meeting-expectations-am-i-setting-the-bar-too-hightrueAfter discussing how to fulfill them, Christina now focuses the discussion on meeting expectations. This time, she opens up about her own dating life. Christina shares how she started a situationship with a guy living in another state and why she dreads that he cannot deliver according to her hopes and expectations. Christina explains how this impacts her divorce decree and what she must do to put an end to her worries. She even discusses her current dilemma: what to do when the guy has already seen her messages but still refuses to reply minutes later.


]]>2The Dating App Round Up With MelissavRXh47vtfThu, 18 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT2315https://gettingwhatyougive.com/the-dating-app-round-up-with-melissatrueIn the last episode, Christina talked about her experiences with dating apps and gave her insights on their use. In this follow-up episode, Christina talks to Melissa about her experiences on dating apps and meeting potential dates online. We get to hear what she thinks of the difference in today’s dating modes and why dating apps aren’t all that hot. We also get to hear some thoughts on why dating apps don’t always hit that sweet spot for many. Tune in and get more insights on modern dating.

]]>9Tuesdays With Tim: How To Speak Your Love LanguagenmYJpD0onTue, 16 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT1663https://gettingwhatyougive.com/how-to-speak-your-love-languagetrueDo you know what your love languages are? In today’s episode, Christina is once again joined by Tim to talk about love languages and how the concept applies to real-life relationships. There are five types: quality time, receiving gifts, physical touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation. They share their top love languages and dig deep to understand why they are what they are. Tim also opens up about using the concept to better understand his wife and elevate his marriage life. Listen in on their discussion and see why it’s important for you to know about your love language with or without a relationship.

]]>6Dating Apps: Insights And ExperiencesoStjrBWs4Thu, 11 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT1038https://gettingwhatyougive.com/dating-apps-insights-and-experiencestrueDating apps are a mixed bag. For every sweet and romantic story, we get a tale of a horrible experience. In this episode, Christina discusses her experiences on dating apps and passes her verdict. She talks about unresponsive matches and ghosting, and take a peek at the struggles of dating for the thirty-something crowd. Tune in and learn more on Christina’s take on dating apps.

]]>7Tuesdays With Tim: Let Your Kid Talk To You Not The Internet With Tim5weMHuvy1Tue, 09 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT3145https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-let-your-kid-talk-to-you-not-the-internet-with-tim/trueNo thanks to technology, today’s kids are getting more spoiled every day. How can you be there for your kids and get them talk to talk to you, face to face? Get some expert parenting advice with your host, Christina, and Tim. Join them as they discuss various topics about parenting, from mental health issues to questioning sexuality. Learn how children can fabricate lies so that they can fit in with their friends. Go and talk with your children so that they don't end up searching for misinformation on the internet. 

]]>4How Your Dreams Reflect Your Need For Affection2Wlw2RG60ZThu, 04 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT476https://gettingwhatyougive.com/how-your-dreams-reflect-your-need-for-affectiontrueHave you ever had a dream that just feels real? So real that you can feel and smell it? Join your host, Christina as she talks about a very specific dream that involves the cartel and loving affection. I hope you’re interested because Christina sure is. Learn if your dreams are reflecting how your life, in this case, the lack of affection. Listen and understand if having a dream about human connection is normal. Discover what it means today.

]]>5Tuesdays With Tim: Your Weekly Dose Of Conversation Between Two Old FriendsFFcKHGuqTTue, 02 Apr 2024 07:00:00 GMT268https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-your-weekly-dose-of-conversation-between-two-old-friendstrueIn a world that is spinning so fast, there is nothing like a good conversation with an old friend to ground you back into the simple life. Are you in for a weekly catch-up among two friends, simply speaking their truth and experiences? Then you’re in for a treat! Christina sits down with her high school friend, Tim, every Tuesday for a weekly round of sharing their rich experiences in life, the lessons they learned, and their insights into the fast-changing world and its future. In this bite-sized episode, have a taste of what is to come as Tim talks about the events that led to his entering the military to the depression separation he felt later on. Join Christina on this ride every Tuesday with Tim! 

]]>trailerTuesdays With Tim: On Love, Marriage, And ParentingiASdIo9OwThu, 28 Mar 2024 07:00:00 GMT2366https://gettingwhatyougive.com/tuesdays-with-tim-on-love-marriage-and-parentingtrueYoung love. We all had it, but now that we're parents, we can't help but get concerned about our children exploring the world of dating and intimate relationships. Nevertheless, these are experiences worth having. Kicking off the regular segment called Tuesdays with Tim, Christina Paxton introduces her high school friend, Tim, who will join us every Tuesday to explore various topics from love to life and everything in between. In this pilot episode of the segment, Tim and Christina take a deep dive into dating and relationships. They share their experiences in trying to find love and connection, starting from high school to the married life. Each with their own lessons and insights, they talk about the things they learned along the way and how their idea of love has evolved. Tim also shares more about his life, including his experiences in the military dealing with PTSD, parenting and social media, and overall family life. Join him and Christina as they bare it all, speaking straight from their heart, truth, and experiences.

]]>2Dating, Relationships And Sharing The Dirty Deets For The Divorced Thirty-SomethingM4NVzD32mzWed, 27 Mar 2024 07:00:00 GMT407https://gettingwhatyougive.com/dating-relationships-and-sharing-the-dirty-deets-for-the-divorced-thirty-something/trueLadies, you are not alone. Christina starts things with a bang in this first episode as she begins sharing the dirty deets. We talk dating for thirty-somethings, relationships and the challenges of relationships. With each exciting and provocative discussion, Christina hopes to reach out to everyone. Tune in for more juicy details and relationship advice.

]]>1You Get What You Give: Tips And Advice For Dealing With Life StruggleswkcFfegeMbMon, 25 Mar 2024 07:00:00 GMT71https://gettingwhatyougive.com/you-get-what-you-give-tips-and-advice-for-dealing-with-life-struggles/trueLife has several twists and turns. We’ve all had our struggles. Wouldn’t it be great if there is someone we could turn to for practical tips and advice? Welcome to You Get What You Give, a podcast for anyone and everyone. In this trailer episode, host Christina Paxton digs deep into life experiences, divorce, sex, parenting, co-parenting, marriage, friendship, and anything in between. Don’t face these things alone! Join Christina in this podcast created only for you.

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